Hiya Gorgeous!
I wanted to let you know that I’m taking a break from blogging for a bit. Pressing pause. Going on hiatus. And giving myself and our team permission to evolve.
I’ve been coming to you weekly for 13 years now and many of you have been with me since the beginning.
Thank you for inviting me into your inbox, your living room, and your life. I love serving you on your wellness journey and I promise that I’ll be back soon with better-than-ever content to support you along the way.
I’m just taking a short pause to answer the invitation my life is giving me to do things differently.
To narrow my focus to what truly matters and step away from what can feel like an always-on, cycle of busyness. Think, more slow cooking, less hustle. More intentional living—including using the good silver and candles on a regular Tuesday night—and less grind.
Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do and I love you. But I’m inspired to prune and simplify so my team and I can serve you in new and exciting ways, while also taking really good care of ourselves.
You see, whenever I’ve made a big change in my life, I’ve needed time to recalibrate. But I haven’t always given myself that time. Instead, even as a wellness leader, it’s so easy to just add more balls to the juggle. Writing a new book? Add it to the load. Launching a new product? Pile it on the glorious heap. Need a slice of a workday to be with family members who need me? Make it up on nights and weekends.
For all of us, it’s tempting to accumulate more and more responsibility without ever pruning our lives and work to create the delicious breathing room our souls want.
When I’ve given in to that temptation, I know it hasn’t been good for me. But sometimes it’s difficult to shift the voice that believes that “this is what I need to do to show up and keep it all going”. Sound familiar?
Next month, I’ll be entering my 49th year—my last journey around the sun in this decade of growth, success, loss, love and everything in between. While I’m not one to lament getting older, (I’m lucky to get older, I have stage IV cancer!) this birthday is another wake-up call. What worked energetically in my 20’s, 30’s and 40’s was powerful stuff. It brought me to the biggest stages in the world. More importantly, it brought me to you. But my 50’s are already calling for something more sacred.
I’m no longer looking to grow countless new branches and leaves on my tree of life, instead, my desire is to deepen my roots and strengthen my foundation.
If there are areas of your own life that feel out of balance, or that you just want more time to explore, I encourage you to pause and reevaluate, just like I am. You don’t have to stay the same—even if people want you to. Give yourself permission to listen to your life.
Because the pivot you need to make for your own beautiful expansion will become clear in the stillness.
Notice when things aren’t working—pause, evaluate, and give yourself permission to evolve. The status quo is easy, my friends. In fact, many of us prefer to operate on old rhythms that are familiar, when in reality, the spiritual riches are on the other side of our discomfort.
So here’s what this means on a practical level. I’m going to read and swim more. 🙂
I’m also going to spend more time with myself and my family in a way that doesn’t feel rushed, or like I can’t shut off because even though I’m present, I’m anywhere but there.
My team and I are also going to re-imagine how we do business. The same kind of compassion, care and quality you’ve come to expect, will only deepen from our willingness to pause and evaluate before we pivot.
During this break we’ll be doing some housekeeping and rejuvenating our creativity, before we expand our team, our mission and our vision.
We’re wildly passionate about new and personal ways to serve our readers and we need a little time to design and build that. So time—our most valuable asset—is what we will give ourselves. I hope you’ll do the same if this resonates with you, dear one.
You may be wondering, can we stay connected during this evolve experiment?
Absolutely! I’ll still send out email newsletters, share posts to Instagram from my porch to yours, and keep serving our members every day inside of Inner Circle Wellness. You can also peruse the treasure trove of info available in the hundreds of articles I’ve already shared here at kriscarr.com.
But the very best way to keep in touch with me would be to join my text messaging list. It’ll be my primary communication vehicle during this hiatus. I’ll be sharing more behind-the-scenes, personal content than ever before. After all, I want to keep you posted on my permission to evolve experiment as I’m sure I’ll have some interesting notes from the field! But you’ll need to be on my text list to get all that goodness! So text WELCOME to (845) 203-3864 or click here and text WELCOME to make it easy.
Thank you for being a good friend to me, to yourself and to the world. I adore you.
Your turn: Are you craving permission to pause and evolve, like I am? Is your life calling for a pivot? What’s one small thing you could do to make that happen?
Peace & growth,
Dearesr Kris,
Thank you for your Beauty-full, bountiful, BEINGness! What a transcendent presence you have!! I did the tapping on health and listened to your interview and was so drawn to your authenticity and your vulnerability. I have faced a near death car accident that ended my dance career at 19, over 30 operations and dealing with a rare genetic connective tissue disease. This year I got Covid in March 2020 and have been dealing with long Covid and have been asked to go deeper in my journey of surrender and trust. I have been immersed in wellness, spirituality and healing for my whole life. Something about your depth and honesty touched my soul deeply. I wanted to say thank you. You inspire me!
Sat Nam,
Dawn
Beautiful!
Good luck and I hope you find the peace you deserve! I think I need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. I’m feeling more stressed and overwhelmed everyday, and feel like I don’t have much time for my family. It’s time to figure out what’s really important.
Kris, I was thinking about you today because I haven’t been getting your newsletter. Glad to know that everything is ok. Hope you and your team are enjoying your hiatus. I look forward to seeing your new content when you return.
I am so glad I came upon this post today. Changing what I do and allowing myself to evolve are always things I struggle with. I am struggling with this still. Thank you for sharing this and your journey.
Hi Kris,
Grateful for your results journal:) I have been faithful to the process and feel like my life is moving in more positive direction. It’s been hard however knowing your moving forward with a community of like minded souls means the world to me ! Thank you for always showing up and being your true self. I hope to give you a hug someday and share my story:) Namaste maria
Way to go Kris! Enjoy your time off. We love, honour and support you.
Omg, that was very touching to my soul! I am honor that you honor your soul’s desires to your upcoming transformational journey. Thank you for sharing!
Good for you, Kris! At 68 I am definitely feeling the call to slow down and find peace, however, I find it hard to let go, especially financial concerns. My husband has the “big C.” I think it will require baby steps. I look forward your future messages. You are a peaceful, positive light for all of us!
Dearest Kris, do pleased you are taking a break – I was getting worried about you, one recent pic you looked tired & too thin.
I’m still a bit concerned that with your emails & texts that you’re not completely withdrawing from your public life- will it be enough?
I am on the same rejuvenation road down here in Wintery New Zealand, challenges are many & varied but the need to look inward & maintain my sense of self has never been stronger
Thank you for being your divine self, you are a beautiful & extraordinary woman, enjoy your rest- make it a priority to serve yourself as well as you serve others.
Much love & hugs, Sally xo
Beautifully written. Thank you. Having just retired I too am trying to listen to my soul’s calling. It is time to open the spigot of this vessel and let flow those things that are not longer serving me and to bring in new ways, thoughts, ideas that resonate with who and what my soul is craving at this time in my life. It is a time of excitement but necessary stillness to listen. Sending you blessings, support and wishes for a successful journey. Be Well……….
Reading and swimming more sounds amazing! ????♂️ Have so much fun ???? thanks for all of these beautiful words of wisdom- look forward to your texts!
I too am looking for time to refocus. I recently had cancer surgery, completed radiation and still healing. Finding it hard to have time for me while taking care of everyone else and finding a new focus because of retirement and downsizing
From a home to condo. A lot going on !! I just dont know where to start
Thank you, Kris, for a beautifully expressed blog.
Yes! Yes! Yes!
Enjoy Life!
Blessings and love to you.
Have a blessed time off, you certainly deserve it. I am so thankful that my daughter told me about you several years ago, I began to follow you and learned about your Crazy Sexy Diet, which has changed how I live. The best thing that happened to me for my health. Take good care of yourself and your family. Happy 49th birthday!
Love and hugs, Phyllis ????