Hiya Gorgeous!
I wanted to let you know that I’m taking a break from blogging for a bit. Pressing pause. Going on hiatus. And giving myself and our team permission to evolve.
I’ve been coming to you weekly for 13 years now and many of you have been with me since the beginning.
Thank you for inviting me into your inbox, your living room, and your life. I love serving you on your wellness journey and I promise that I’ll be back soon with better-than-ever content to support you along the way.
I’m just taking a short pause to answer the invitation my life is giving me to do things differently.
To narrow my focus to what truly matters and step away from what can feel like an always-on, cycle of busyness. Think, more slow cooking, less hustle. More intentional living—including using the good silver and candles on a regular Tuesday night—and less grind.
Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do and I love you. But I’m inspired to prune and simplify so my team and I can serve you in new and exciting ways, while also taking really good care of ourselves.
You see, whenever I’ve made a big change in my life, I’ve needed time to recalibrate. But I haven’t always given myself that time. Instead, even as a wellness leader, it’s so easy to just add more balls to the juggle. Writing a new book? Add it to the load. Launching a new product? Pile it on the glorious heap. Need a slice of a workday to be with family members who need me? Make it up on nights and weekends.
For all of us, it’s tempting to accumulate more and more responsibility without ever pruning our lives and work to create the delicious breathing room our souls want.
When I’ve given in to that temptation, I know it hasn’t been good for me. But sometimes it’s difficult to shift the voice that believes that “this is what I need to do to show up and keep it all going”. Sound familiar?
Next month, I’ll be entering my 49th year—my last journey around the sun in this decade of growth, success, loss, love and everything in between. While I’m not one to lament getting older, (I’m lucky to get older, I have stage IV cancer!) this birthday is another wake-up call. What worked energetically in my 20’s, 30’s and 40’s was powerful stuff. It brought me to the biggest stages in the world. More importantly, it brought me to you. But my 50’s are already calling for something more sacred.
I’m no longer looking to grow countless new branches and leaves on my tree of life, instead, my desire is to deepen my roots and strengthen my foundation.
If there are areas of your own life that feel out of balance, or that you just want more time to explore, I encourage you to pause and reevaluate, just like I am. You don’t have to stay the same—even if people want you to. Give yourself permission to listen to your life.
Because the pivot you need to make for your own beautiful expansion will become clear in the stillness.
Notice when things aren’t working—pause, evaluate, and give yourself permission to evolve. The status quo is easy, my friends. In fact, many of us prefer to operate on old rhythms that are familiar, when in reality, the spiritual riches are on the other side of our discomfort.
So here’s what this means on a practical level. I’m going to read and swim more. 🙂
I’m also going to spend more time with myself and my family in a way that doesn’t feel rushed, or like I can’t shut off because even though I’m present, I’m anywhere but there.
My team and I are also going to re-imagine how we do business. The same kind of compassion, care and quality you’ve come to expect, will only deepen from our willingness to pause and evaluate before we pivot.
During this break we’ll be doing some housekeeping and rejuvenating our creativity, before we expand our team, our mission and our vision.
We’re wildly passionate about new and personal ways to serve our readers and we need a little time to design and build that. So time—our most valuable asset—is what we will give ourselves. I hope you’ll do the same if this resonates with you, dear one.
You may be wondering, can we stay connected during this evolve experiment?
Absolutely! I’ll still send out email newsletters, share posts to Instagram from my porch to yours, and keep serving our members every day inside of Inner Circle Wellness. You can also peruse the treasure trove of info available in the hundreds of articles I’ve already shared here at kriscarr.com.
But the very best way to keep in touch with me would be to join my text messaging list. It’ll be my primary communication vehicle during this hiatus. I’ll be sharing more behind-the-scenes, personal content than ever before. After all, I want to keep you posted on my permission to evolve experiment as I’m sure I’ll have some interesting notes from the field! But you’ll need to be on my text list to get all that goodness! So text WELCOME to (845) 203-3864 or click here and text WELCOME to make it easy.
Thank you for being a good friend to me, to yourself and to the world. I adore you.
Your turn: Are you craving permission to pause and evolve, like I am? Is your life calling for a pivot? What’s one small thing you could do to make that happen?
Peace & growth,
Love you Kris… you have been there with me thru my journey with the same “C” that I have as you…. You give me hope, peace and love when I need it the most…. Take care of you….we do get lost in helping others…but please take care of you…recharge and enjoy the next journey…I totally get it… Lots of love, hugs and well wishes…can’t wait to hear of your new journey…may it bring you peace, relaxation and wonderful moments to cherish…. <3
Thank you sooo much for sharing your journey. The light you shine is beautiful. Have a lovely break gorgeous!
I have followed your story for so long and truly appreciate everything that you have shared. Whenever I read or listen to something that you say, it makes me take a quick pause and think about it… sometimes I should probably listen a little more. As I write this comment, I feel like I need to take a pause and re-evaluate different aspects of my life, so that I can truly live the life I want. This will most definitely be a challenge! Thank you for this post and may your pause lead you to what is most important in life. ❤
Crossroads. Yes. Many of us here these days. Many roads to travel, many roads we have travelled to get here. Often never guessed where those roads would take us. Never really know where the next road will lead. You have been wonderful company on the journey. I am just going to wander down here for a bit and let you have some time for yourself. You deserve it. Catch you somewhere up the road a bit.
I can’t really say how much this resonates with me right now. I’ve been lucky enough to have a career I’ve loved, but lately I’ve been feeling the urge to go in a different direction. Your words are inspiring me to take some time to figure out what i really want and to take a leap of faith! Enjoy your hiatus!
Congratulations to you to answer the call to take a step back and evaluate your life. It’s especially difficult for someone like yourself who has a strong public presence. Too many people don’t give themselves permission to do so and in the end lose themselves in the ever increasing list of “Things To do” forgetting who they are, what is important, and what gives them joy. Good luck to you.
I wish you health and peace on your journey. I too am ready for what life has in store for me. I look forward to your texts. God bless you ????
It’s nice to seeing you taking care of yourself and allowing yourself a break. It makes me feel okay to do the same. Even if that means disappointing others. Namaste Kris.
Thank you for sharing this Kris and for demonstrating what true self-care looks like. It’s beautiful. Sending love to you on your hiatus.
Everything and everybody has changed this year and We all will be evolving, Sweetie. Thankyou so much for all your wonderful books and blogs, cards and emails, videos and big beautiful smiles of the past several years and i will keep an eye out for you in future. Dance pretty Dahling!
Oh, Kris . . . you always express yourself so beautifully, taking the time to unpack your message so it resonates powerfully. I love that you are also taking time to evolve and re-evaluate — something we should all do from time to time, and you have earned it in spades. Thanks for all you do for the wellness community — we’ll here waiting for you when you return! xoxo
have a nice rest, Bob Martin
The pause between the notes is almost as important as the music itself. I think this quote is in one of my Dr Wayne Dyer books— love(d) him ❤️ This is the message you are sending to all of your followers. I respect your decision and look forward to a text or instagram porch post as they always make me smile, think and breathe deeply. Being in the middle of my 50’s and reinventing my normal has been eye opening and life changing. Energy spent on those who bring joy and peace to ones life is so much better than the drama, spiraling and negative energy some people expresse. Namaste to you, your husband, pups and enjoy the hiatus. ????????????????♀️????
Yes! Permission to rest and recalibrate, what a great concept. Hope you can breathe deeply and enjoy the moments with your family. Look forward to witnessing and supporting your next chapter;
We all love you so much, Kris!!!! I hope you relax, laugh, play and enjoy this time! Thank you so much for all you have taught me!!!!
Beautiful! I love how you are honoring yourself in this way, in this era of your life. It is resonating deeply with me, since I turned 50 on the date that the WHO declared the current situation a worldwide pandemic, which was quite a way to ring in my 5th decade! I am deeply feeling this pull towards a new and more nurturing direction and giving myself space to map that our, and I am eagerly watching which direction you take. Much love!
May this pause be everything you desire it to be! I will miss your emails but cannot accept texts as I cannot separate my work texts from other texts (unless I pay for another humber) And it would be too intrusive to my work. So I will look forward to your return after the pruning. And happy birthday (early) !
I wish you all the best in your evolution process – something we all should do is to press “pause” from time to time.
Thinking of you and wishing you well on your journey.
Blessings Kris! You are a gift to me .. Thanks for all you do & your constant inspiration & words of kindness! I need this hiatus too & I’m taking your advice ????
Something about 50 makes one reevaluate. Enjoy your journey and thank you for inviting me to journey with you. I have enjoyed being part of this family. You’ve brought joy, compassion, and great words to a sometimes crazy and chaotic life. I appreciate you very much and look forward to our journey on our final trip around the sun. Love, Light, and abundant blessings to you.
Thank you for sharing and for all your inspirational wisdom. Sending love, peace and prayers that you will find the path to a healthy, joyful and blessed next phase of life. Stay well – Take care – Blessings