Kris Carr

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Permission to Evolve: I’m Pausing to Reimagine Life & So Can You

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Hiya Gorgeous!

I wanted to let you know that I’m taking a break from blogging for a bit. Pressing pause. Going on hiatus. And giving myself and our team permission to evolve.

I’ve been coming to you weekly for 13 years now and many of you have been with me since the beginning.

Thank you for inviting me into your inbox, your living room, and your life. I love serving you on your wellness journey and I promise that I’ll be back soon with better-than-ever content to support you along the way.

I’m just taking a short pause to answer the invitation my life is giving me to do things differently.

To narrow my focus to what truly matters and step away from what can feel like an always-on, cycle of busyness. Think, more slow cooking, less hustle. More intentional living—including using the good silver and candles on a regular Tuesday night—and less grind.

Don’t get me wrong, I love what I do and I love you. But I’m inspired to prune and simplify so my team and I can serve you in new and exciting ways, while also taking really good care of ourselves.

You see, whenever I’ve made a big change in my life, I’ve needed time to recalibrate. But I haven’t always given myself that time. Instead, even as a wellness leader, it’s so easy to just add more balls to the juggle. Writing a new book? Add it to the load. Launching a new product? Pile it on the glorious heap. Need a slice of a workday to be with family members who need me? Make it up on nights and weekends.

For all of us, it’s tempting to accumulate more and more responsibility without ever pruning our lives and work to create the delicious breathing room our souls want.

When I’ve given in to that temptation, I know it hasn’t been good for me. But sometimes it’s difficult to shift the voice that believes that “this is what I need to do to show up and keep it all going”. Sound familiar?

Next month, I’ll be entering my 49th year—my last journey around the sun in this decade of growth, success, loss, love and everything in between. While I’m not one to lament getting older, (I’m lucky to get older, I have stage IV cancer!) this birthday is another wake-up call. What worked energetically in my 20’s, 30’s and 40’s was powerful stuff. It brought me to the biggest stages in the world. More importantly, it brought me to you. But my 50’s are already calling for something more sacred.

I’m no longer looking to grow countless new branches and leaves on my tree of life, instead, my desire is to deepen my roots and strengthen my foundation.

If there are areas of your own life that feel out of balance, or that you just want more time to explore, I encourage you to pause and reevaluate, just like I am. You don’t have to stay the same—even if people want you to. Give yourself permission to listen to your life.

Because the pivot you need to make for your own beautiful expansion will become clear in the stillness.

Notice when things aren’t working—pause, evaluate, and give yourself permission to evolve. The status quo is easy, my friends. In fact, many of us prefer to operate on old rhythms that are familiar, when in reality, the spiritual riches are on the other side of our discomfort.

So here’s what this means on a practical level. I’m going to read and swim more. 🙂

I’m also going to spend more time with myself and my family in a way that doesn’t feel rushed, or like I can’t shut off because even though I’m present, I’m anywhere but there.

My team and I are also going to re-imagine how we do business. The same kind of compassion, care and quality you’ve come to expect, will only deepen from our willingness to pause and evaluate before we pivot.

During this break we’ll be doing some housekeeping and rejuvenating our creativity, before we expand our team, our mission and our vision.

We’re wildly passionate about new and personal ways to serve our readers and we need a little time to design and build that. So time—our most valuable asset—is what we will give ourselves. I hope you’ll do the same if this resonates with you, dear one.

You may be wondering, can we stay connected during this evolve experiment?

Absolutely! I’ll still send out email newsletters, share posts to Instagram from my porch to yours, and keep serving our members every day inside of Inner Circle Wellness. You can also peruse the treasure trove of info available in the hundreds of articles I’ve already shared here at kriscarr.com.

But the very best way to keep in touch with me would be to join my text messaging list. It’ll be my primary communication vehicle during this hiatus. I’ll be sharing more behind-the-scenes, personal content than ever before. After all, I want to keep you posted on my permission to evolve experiment as I’m sure I’ll have some interesting notes from the field! But you’ll need to be on my text list to get all that goodness! So text WELCOME to (845) 203-3864 or click here and text WELCOME to make it easy.

Thank you for being a good friend to me, to yourself and to the world. I adore you.

Your turn: Are you craving permission to pause and evolve, like I am? Is your life calling for a pivot? What’s one small thing you could do to make that happen?

Peace & growth,

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  1. Teri says:

    I’ve been in a transitional state for 3 years and you have played a part in it, Kris. Because of your cookbooks, I rediscovered my “granddaddy” Vitamix (bought in 1979!) and started making smoothies again. You introduced me to the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in 2017 and I completed the course and fulfilled a long-held dream. You also introduced me to the best skin-care product on the market, Ann Marie Gianni. Your messages are always uplifting and your personal story inspiring.

    So I’m sending you a heartfelt Mahalo nui loa (thank you, with love) and wishing you the best in your next chapter of life.

  2. maria says:

    Thank you for all your inspiration through out the years! I started a non-profit for cancer called Mary’s place by the Sea and grateful to have this community to give me knowledge, support, courage and guidance. I am pivoting now due to a clash with my mp community. Its challenging to be the wellness leader for those still choosing to not be their own CEO of their health. Grateful for your team and your passion along with your honesty. Its been life changing for me ! xo maria mckeon

  3. Mary Hartzell says:

    Thank you for giving me permission to do the same for myself. I will spend the next couple of weeks working on my spiritual growth, physical and emotional growth as well. My plate is overflowing and everything is starting to fall. Time to hit the pause button ⏸ and a time for reflection on what really matters. Namaste!

  4. Gina Caruso says:

    Dearest Kris–

    Your message distilled in my heart in this phrase: “Permission to Pause, Prioritize, Prune and Pivot.”

    Your intention, courage, motivation and inner strength in your decision to shift really came out so beautifully in your blog. Thank you for being so thoughtful in the way you’ve messaged your shift with us. Out of all the wellness groups and resources out there, yours has been the most impactful for me, especially how you’ve encouraged us to build community while we work on our self care.

    Having just turned 50 myself, I can relate to the calling of a new pending decade for you. Enjoy swimming, slow cooking, family time, and your evolution! You’ve got this and we will be here always for you!!

    In metta, Gina Caruso

  5. Carol Bossard says:

    I hope that you fully enjoy your break — and that you aren’t tempted to do “just a little more” and then too much more during your time of rest and renewal.

  6. Naomi Suzuki says:

    Hi Kris,
    Thank you for sending us valuable information and encouragement constantly every week! I had been working for fashion company in NY for many years, working late until 9 or 10 pm…And bang! I was diagnosed with cancer. I didn’t know what to do…then I found your movie “Crazy Sexy Cancer” and ordered right away. It gave me hope and courage and showed me the light during my darkest time. And since then you have been helping me grow and glow 🙂 You have been outputting so much for us – thank you! Please enjoy your time with your family and friends!!

  7. Deborah L .Ruggles says:

    Hi Kris, Permission to evolve, I love the title and idea of this practice. So happy that you are giving yourself permission to just be.
    I’m doing the same, writing when spirit moves me, living more in the moment. I think it is all part of learning to live in 5D. Blessings and love. Deborah from Nova Scotia, Canada

  8. Al Rodee says:

    Kris, this is the first time I have reached out to you in several years of reading your posts. I have stayed on your list because you make me smile every time I see that “Hiya Gorgeous!” come in. I will miss that. I have never purchased any of your generous offers or taken any of your classes however you have been of service to me in many small ways.
    I have been an expert EFT and Ho’oponopono practitioner for the past 12 years and live in Nova Scotia. It is my belief that we all need a coach at times. I would like to offer you some no-charge sessions in exchange for all the smiles you have sent my way over the years. Even though we have never met I feel like a kindred Spirit. I hope you ask your guides and follow their wisdom about this offer. If it is meant to be I look forward to meeting you soon.
    I love you, I am sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you,
    al

    • Lisa says:

      I wish you peace, happiness, love and pure enjoyment ad you take time off. You deserve it for everything you do for all of us.

  9. This is absolutely beautiful. I LOVE that you are listening to the invitation — and role modeling for us to do the same! ????????????

  10. Diana says:

    Thank you for sharing and enjoy your down time

  11. Margarite says:

    Best wishes for a fabulous summer break. Now is certainly a wonderful time to stop and reevaluate what’s working for YOU and to exercise your own advice. You are always so loving and inspirational to all of us — now it’s your turn to relax and renew. Enjoy!

  12. Amie says:

    Happy early birthday Kris!!! What a gift you are giving to yourself, this intentional time. I too just turned 49 this week and have set a new course for my next year to 50. These milestones are great opportunities for self reflection. I look forward to hearing from you soon and what comes next! Thank you for being one of my compasses in life that brings me back to myself. Much love! Namaste!

  13. Cheryl says:

    Hi Kris,

    The world is crazy right now and soon to be entering your 50s (take it from me) is more life-changing than one can imagine! On another note, you were so kind to me on Instagram when I told you my hubby developed prostate cancer, which I really appreciated. Later I made a fuss about BLM with another woman on your feed. I’m sorry about that. I want to wish you luck on your evolutionary journey and am sending you love and prayers! With love, Cheryl xx

  14. Stacey says:

    Beautiful Kris! The slightly silver lining in the past few months is that in some ways we’ve all had to put aspects of life on pause, and to now know to choose pause is a significant and beautiful choice. Enjoy it!

  15. Vesna says:

    Thank you for sharing Kris! When I turned 50 my life shifted and life situations were changing. I went through a period of growth where I found out how resilient I was. I was also yearning for something but didn’t know what that was. A voice was calling. The only way I could here that voice clearly was to be with myself and listen to my heart – listen to the soft voice. Now, with my 53rd birthday just passed, I’ve embarked on another path. A little detour. During those three years I’ve taken two courses and have embraced the possibilities awaiting me. Thank you for being such a compassionate, loving human being. Have a beautiful break.

  16. Dawn Engler says:

    I will certainly miss the weekly voice of yours, but I’ve often wondered how you do it all, sharing with all of us. Fly and be free Kris.
    I’ve re-framed what I’m doing as well. Have to go back to work so the entrepreneur in me is taking a long break. I too have to help the roots dig in some. I love the analogy! Its hard to step away from the “plan” as we’ve imagined, but shift we will.
    Be blessed in taking your breath. You and your team are so loved. I will miss you all while you breathe and recreate, but I’m looking forward to what you will come up with.
    Love you!

  17. bett says:

    Dear Kris
    THANK YOU for all your support and encouragement all these years… and inspiration. Enjoy the hiatus…while you revision. Will miss your emails… so happy to have been sharing this healing journey with you.
    Keep thriving!

  18. Mary says:

    I love that line “I’m no longer looking to grow countless new branches and leaves on my tree of life, instead, my desire is to deepen my roots and strengthen my foundation.” I think that sums up where I am at right now in life but haven’t been able to express it quite so eloquently. Hope you don’t mind if I quote you on that one!

  19. Karen Wettstein says:

    Dear Kris,

    I wondered if something new might be down the pike for you. Lately, your videos have had a more soulful and stillness energy about them. A quieter and more contemplative pace. You even have cows visiting you! That’s good medicine that carried a message for you on that day.

    What a great birthday gift to yourself to prepare for a new decade! Me, too! I turned 59 this past June. Another rite of passage.

    It is a good time for a hiatus. To shift things up a bit. Reinvent.

    Let’s all walk through the woods!

    Love, hugs, and gratitude to you and Team Kris!

    Karen
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  20. Jenny says:

    I love this so much! I’m so happy that you’re taking a break for yourself. The part about “pruning and deepening your roots” really resonated with me. Thank you, Kris. And enjoy your much deserved break! Peace & blessings to you.

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