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Manifesting Your Desires: A Guide to Asking & Receiving

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Hi Sweet Friends,

In fall 2013, I spent two glorious weeks working with my Hay House family in sunny California. The days were packed with recordings, meetings, dinners (including a fabulous date night with Louise Hay), the spectacular I Can Do It! conference in Pasadena, and lots of delicious manifesting.

While I was there, I decided to browse the book table for a new nighttime read. Since everyone’s been gushing about E-Squared by Pam Grout, I swiped a copy (well, I didn’t actually steal it; we Hay House authors get a few cool perks, and one of them is free soul schwag).

As you know if you’ve read it, E-Squared is hilarious, easy to understand, and very compelling. The book basically demonstrates how your thoughts create your reality, and it includes nine simple experiments that prove it.

Today, I’m sharing the results from the first experiment from E-Squared and the chain reaction of goodness that I started to notice as a result.

Allow me to set the scene.

I was kinda blue. Two weeks is a long time to be away from home, especially since our new arrival (Buddy) had just joined our family. Plus, Brian had originally planned to be with me for part of the trip (couple time), but since our sweet boy came into our lives, it’s been around-the-clock feeding and care. Loving papa Brian had to take one for the team and stay home. So there I was, alone in my room, reading about energy and missing my crew. Did I mention the dark chocolate covered strawberries and hydrating mud mask?

The Dude Abides…

The first principle is called The Dude abides (after the hilarious film The Big Lebowski). The dude in this scenario is the energy field, Universe, God—whatever you’re cozy with. And the goal of the exercise is to ask and receive—not in two months or years—now. As Pam says, “This experiment will prove to you that there is a loving, abundant, totally hip force in the universe.” Ask for a sign and give the universe 48 hours to deliver and show you it has your back.

I’ve never worked with such a quick turnaround time. It was like ordering something from Amazon Prime. I usually provide plenty of manifesting runway and stay open to the form my intention presents. It doesn’t always materialize exactly as discussed: Know what I mean? For example, you may be calling a new job into your life, praying for it, putting it on your vision board, and actively networking. Not only do you want a new job, you want the work to have meaning; you want to help others and serve. Good for you; great idea. Then poof! Your beloved aunt jets to the next dimension and leaves you gobs of cash. You take that moolah (abundance) and launch YOUR dream charity. See, ya never know how it all shakes out, but it always does. Always.

To take E-Squared’s advice for a spin, I picked something really practical.

“Hi, Universe, it’s Kris Carr from Woodstock, NY, Zip code 12498. Um, I’m reading E-Squared and the author says that you need to give me a specific and exact sign right quick. For the record, I’m not normally this demanding—she made me do it. Anyhooo, if you’re listening, I would like someone to spontaneously hand me a delicious green drink in the next 48 hours. Thanks so much.”

manifesting-waynedyer

I guess I could have aimed higher. But hey, that’s what I needed at the time. So the next day I head to Worldwide Woo Woo headquarters (A.K.A., the Hay House main office). I have lunch with Reid Tracy, the awesome CEO (and I’m not just saying that because I want another book deal) and do some recordings with Bruce Lipton and Davidji, who brought his sweet rescue pooch, Peaches the Buddha Princess, to the sound booth. Next up, a Wayne Dyer visit. He was recording his next book and had just finished an amazing evening with Abraham. As you may imagine, I was in spiritual rock star heaven.

After a thoroughly creative and inspiring day, I grabbed my stuff and shimmied toward the door. Then it happened. Whoa. I stopped dead in my tracks. Guess who was standing there, holding a green juice in his hand and smiling? Reid!

Thank you, dearest Universe. The Dude definitely abided.

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That afternoon, I took a gorgeous sunset stroll. The beautiful green elixir had rejuvenated both my body and my beliefs. As Louise always says, “Life loves you.” Cheers to that.

I often forget to ask for what I need, and I bet you do, too. But that’s not all; sometimes I don’t even notice what I’ve already created, manifested, or called forth into my life. It’s like I’m walking around with blinders on. Of course, it’s important to count our blessings. But it goes deeper. We also have to recognize all the goodness we’ve actively manifested.

And guess what? I bet you’re manifesting a lot more than you realize. Yup. If you haven’t already, it’s time for you to take flight. Let the eagle be your power animal. Observe the majestic mountains, rivers, and meadows that make up your life. Little ole you created a lot of that. So much of our pain comes from the way we drive ourselves into the ground on a daily basis. We’re zooming like maniacs with barely enough time to pause and take in our accomplishments.

The relentless pace blocks us from receiving and celebrating our victories.

We just keep moving on to the next thing before we can truly appreciate our wonderful growth. Gosh, what’s all the hard work worth if we can’t smell the peonies? Can you imagine how good it would feel to periodically give yourself an Oscar acceptance speech? “I’d like to thank the academy (and my angel agents) for this imaginary award. I acknowledge and appreciate how amazing I am. In the last six months, I drastically reduced my cholesterol—without any drugs. Yay, me!”

We make magic constantly. Pause. Breathe. Notice. Praise. Repeat. You’ve come so, so, so far. Pour a cup of tea and brag to yourself. Truly, you’re a miracle creating the miraculous.

Try this with me: Crack open your journal and at the top of the page write “Noticing” and underline it. Next, list three things you’ve actively called into your life.

Here’s an example of another sweet (and very favorite) manifestation.

manifesting-buddy
I’ve written about Buddy’s rescue story in the past, but I forgot to share the most important part.

A few hours before Buddy was found, Brian and I were at our local dump. In addition to unloading garbage and recycling, people can also find unwanted animals at our local transfer station. They have a shelter/adoption center. I always bring cookies and visit the sweet beings. Well, that morning I said to Brian, “I’m ready for another fur baby. Are you?” Full disclosure: I ask this question monthly. He usually responds like a smart therapist: “Honey, this is not a no, it’s a not now.” And I don’t blame him. I travel so much; we’re still wrapping our home renovation; work has been really nutty, etc. (excuse), etc. But that day it was different. That day was the best day ever. That day Brian said, “Yes, I’m ready!” Two hours later, Buddy wandered into our lives . . . . BAM! Manifesting a-go-go!

Your Turn: Share one of your victories in the comments below. The universe and I can’t wait to celebrate you.

Peace & Manifesting,

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  1. Harriet says:

    Talk about serendipity. On a Kindle recommendation – of which their were many – I selected and bought E-Squared this weekend and began reading it. When I read your blog today, I almost fell off my chair!What are the odds? Of all of the books? The universe is certainly giving me a sign me that I need to keep on reading! I thank you Kris!

  2. CHARLOTTE MILLS says:

    Thank you, Kris!

    I am visualizing my new successful business – yoga students filling my new yoga studio so that I may share with them the beauty and peace and ease that yoga may bring to their lives!

    Namaste

    Charlotte

  3. Susan says:

    SO TRUE…..asking and belief are quite a duo*and then when passion is in the mix LIFE happens*!*
    Thanks so much Kris for “who you are”

  4. After months of having the great expense of fixing my old used Honda Civic, it failed to start last week. My mom put her foot down and said I was to sell it back to the guy I bought it from nine months ago. During that time I had wheels and the independence that goes along with them, and now it was going to be gone. I usually would have resisted, but I was so focused on my work that I didn’t have energy to resist. I just said, “well, ok, mom”. So she called up the previous owner and arranged a time for us to meet to sell the car back at his place of work – a Used Toyota dealership. He mentioned to my mom there was a used manual Toyota Corolla in good condition in the lot. My mom passed that information along to me, and although I didn’t have the money in my pocket to make rent, let alone to think about paying for a car, I said to her “I would love to own a manual!” And left it at that.

    Meanwhile, my Honda was fraught with little problems and fixing any of them would have meant putting in more money than the car was worth. The new plan was for me to live at home again and share my mom’s car, which is the way it used to be – and TOUGH, considering I have a huge daily commute and she works away from home, too. Well. OK… we all save money this way.

    Sunday morning came, and we called roadside assistance to jumpstart the car so we could drive it to the dealership where the previous owner works (though this was a personal transaction). As I emptied the belongings from my car, I felt a surge of last-minute resistance and I thought I’d rather keep it than sell it back for a sixth of what I paid in the first place and be left without my trusty (yet unsafe) wheels. I wanted to talk it over with my boyfriend, but when he wasn’t available to talk, I suddenly could no longer find the resistance. I couldn’t feel it anymore – there was a void where it had been, and all that was left was the resignation to go with the flow and let my mom and dad help me sell the car back. We were to use the $600 cash we would get for the car to fix my mom’s car so we could both drive it lots and lots. “Well, ok then. I’m feeling flexible… This will be for the better… it’s good I no longer have an injured car to constantly be fixing…Alright then.”

    Two hours later, I walked away from Toyota having bought a manual Corolla in great condition – and for a great deal that I could afford. And for no money out of pocket. Whhaaaaaa??? All I remembered was saying to my “I would love to own a manual” and leaving it at that.

    • *****saying to my *MOM* “I would love to own a manual”. And leaving it at that. 🙂

      • OH! and it’s important to mention that earlier last week when I was driving my old car on one of my long commutes – during which it stalled a couple times – I was on a particularly beautiful stretch of freeway passing a reservoir and coastal mountains. I had some serious financial trouble, so I kept running through all the things I was grateful for and feeling the abundance of beauty, good food, family and the chance to pursue the career of my dreams in my life. I believe that episode of gratitude was the catalyst for my new car 🙂 🙂

    • Yanet says:

      Just a fast hello and also to thank you for discussing your ideas on this page. I wound up in your blog right after recrseahing physical fitness connected issues on Yahoo… guess I lost track of what I had been performing! Anyway I’ll be back once once more inside the long term to test out your blogposts down the road. Thanks!

  5. Caz says:

    Great story Kris, I’m going have to get this book as I definitely need some serious help manifesting and something is clearly wrong in my approach. Love love love buddy and seeing your Instagram updates, its a beautiful thing you have both done xxx

  6. Beth-ann Roth says:

    I woke up to your email this morning, and it truly inspired me. I downloaded E-Squared, but didn’t even get a chance to start reading it yet. I, too, am uncomfortable asking for things for myself, and if I can, I dare not hope it could happen within 48 hours. But today there was something I hoped I could manifest.

    This past July, while training for the NYC marathon, I suddenly became very stiff. Over the course of the next 4 months I lost a lot of weight and my muscles atrophied. I lost my ability to walk normally, and my joints are sore. No one had been able to pinpoint anything specific. The night before last I had a dream that the pain and disability was only a dream, and that when I woke up I would be back to myself. But that, alas, turned out to be a dream and nothing more. It was, to say the least, disheartening.

    A few days ago I was referred to a practitioner who it was thought might be able to help me find an answer. Unfortunately her first available appointment wasn’t until December 31! At that point I was losing a pound a day, and concerned that I wouldn’t be around by December 31. Fortunately, a cancellation came about and I was able to see her today, a few hours after receiving your email.

    Your email inspired me to manifest for myself the possibility that this time I’d find some answers. And, after 4 months of searching, I did! She was definitive, able to explain SO much, and for the first time I feel like I have a chance to heal within the foreseeable future. I didn’t dare to expect it, but I hoped it, manifested it, and it took only a few hours!

    In “normal” times as I walk down the street people smile at me, and I realize they’re smiling BACK at me because I almost always have a smile on my face, even though I don’t realize it. However, as you can imagine, my condition has made it difficult for me to stay positive these days. I turned to you for inspiration for that reason. And now today I have a new lease on life!!!

    Thank you for all that you do. I don’t know if you can ever imagine what a positive, healing force you are.

    Stay well,
    Beth-ann

  7. Amy Bruce says:

    Holy….I gave this a go…asked for maybe something a bit over the top at first, aka, an indicator that I have job options outside of my current station/location….and a chance to be a speaker at a retreat next year came flying at me, which has been the new goal btw!!! THEN! I went practical and tangible and asked for someone to give me an unexpected gift. This evening one of my grad students came into class with a fresh new bottle of chemicals for my classroom (I run a darkroom) “A gift for you…” she says. BOOM!!! 🙂 You rock, Kris….thanks for your accessible translation of this wisdom 🙂 xo~

  8. Tracey Thompson says:

    I loved hearing you tell this story because I too was at the Pasadena I Can Do It conference and got to meet you in person Kris! That was one of my top manifestations come to fruition right before my eyes!! AWESOME!

  9. Susan says:

    I was sitting in the waiting room at my dentist going over my emails. I found the link in an email to this blog. So as I read about the simple exercise, to ask for one thing, I asked for one thing myself. I almost didn’t even perceive myself doing it. I have a dog that we took in as a puppy 3 years ago. We have a small house, he turned out to be large. He is unhappy being kenneled, we have no yard, etc… So, I asked for an answer to his and our dilemma. I called my husband after my dentist appointment. Near the end of the call he said that By The Way, our friend, his coworker offered to give our dog a home. They had recently moved to a large property, someone is always home, and he would have the run of the place and get to sleep inside at night with his new people. As heart breaking as giving up my dog is, what an amazing answer to have him with a friend and know he would be happy running to his hearts content.

    Thanks for the great article! I think I would like to read the book now too 🙂

  10. debbie lynn poulin says:

    I loved the book and this article inspires me to pick it up again and redo the exercises (and I didn’t complete the last 2). My problem seems to be not knowing what I need and therefore can’t ask for it. I’ve read several books now in line with this principle and I don’t know what to ask for or what I need. I know where I’m at is not right but I’m not sure where to take i. How and what to ask and be specific. Part of it I’m sure is fear and because I’m also terrible at reading the signs or manifestations. I continuously doubt myself and my interpretation.

    I love the bit on “give yourself an Oscar …” and “Pour a cup of tea and brag to yourself”. Two great exercises that I will try by myself and with my best friend because I know how it will make us laugh (another great exercise).

    Kris, you continue to inspire me and I introduce you to people who need you regularly. They’ve bought your cook book, subscribed to your newsletter, check out your blog and website, watched your Operah episode … I’m blessed to have found you. Thank you for the experience and your wisdom.

    Lots of greens, sunshine and love. (oh, and fur).

  11. Di says:

    Hi Kris, i love telling this story!
    In the 80’s i worked & lived on North Qld island resorts, listening to Jimmy Buffett music & going to the beach were my favorite past times. Throughout, I began to dream about sailing around the Caribbean on an old traditional sail boat. It was ten years later my dream came true and not only, but Jimmy came aboard this old sail boat as well.
    And you beautiful Soul, your blog is the best xo

  12. Stefa Shaler says:

    It’s staggering to try and make a list of all the stuff manifesting in my life. But this past week-end, a surprising one came along. I knew about an interesting workshop due to start on Saturday, but I wasn’t going to go. At the 11th hour, I found myself signing up and attending all week-end. It turned out to be a watershed moment for me in that it unlocked a block I been wrestling with and seeking guidance around in my practice of medicine. Now I know I can proceed in the direction I need to go with the new insights and skills I’m getting from the new teacher I met and studied with on the week-end. I don’t know if this was a 48 hour thing or not because the unclarity has been rather long term, but in the day or two before the workshop, I felt myself becoming insistent upon getting some kind os sign. Et voila!

    With love,

    Stefa

  13. Sherrie says:

    Realizing I’m ready to teach both clawhammer & bluegrass banjo. Mystic banjo player here….who also is a Unitarian Universalist! Manifesting students.

  14. Mallory says:

    As I was reading this story, I was very invested and connected and really feeling positive. I have been dealing with horrible anxiety over the past few months and have been coping and not really taking the initiative to help myself. Anyway, as I read the part about using Amazon Prime (which I had no clue that it even existed) at that very moment a commercial came on for Amazon Prime. It really stopped me in my tracks. Coincidence maybe, a sign…most definitely. So right there and then I asked for a sign to let me know that I am healthy, to help me overcome my anxiety. Can’t wait to see what happens. Trying to stay positive. XO Mal.

  15. Sheila says:

    I need a sign that my 27-year-old son will find light and happiness in his life. He is in a dark place right now, and my most earnest desire is for him to be lifted from this bleak outlook and see the beauty that is within him. I had a long difficult talk with him last night, and I thank you for giving me an opportunity today to voice this request.

  16. Iris Benrubi says:

    It’s funny. Just this morning I sent an email to a man I am madly in love with …. mostly as a friend, and said that I love him and adore him – not the first time I’ve said that to him and then thought that he has never said “I love you” to me. I picked up cell phone a half hour ago and found an email from him that said “I love you too”. Oh My God! Instead of saying “……. never happens to me” I could just put out what I want.

    And I did! I asked for tall, dark, handsome man, who is emotionally available, can be intimate, passionate, loves to dance is in alignment with my values to show up in my life to love me and be loved by me! It is done! …. in the next 48 hours. 🙂

  17. Terry-jo Henry says:

    I love your blog and emails, they always seem appropriate and just what I need to hear at that moment. Thx:-) tj

  18. Pam Grout says:

    Dear sweet Kris,

    Thank you SO MUCH for the shout-out!! I’m doing cartwheels!!

    Blessings,

    Pam

    • Kris Carr says:

      How cool! Thanks Pam! And, I manifested your comment! Ha ha ha! Love your book, and clearly, so does the rest of the world. CONGRATS! xo

  19. Margid Saar says:

    I love, how You talking about WORK!!!
    That is my dream to – work with team and create creativity, architecture – that has a meaning.
    Let the magic begin!
    Wonderful emotions!

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