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Manifesting Your Desires: A Guide to Asking & Receiving

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Hi Sweet Friends,

In fall 2013, I spent two glorious weeks working with my Hay House family in sunny California. The days were packed with recordings, meetings, dinners (including a fabulous date night with Louise Hay), the spectacular I Can Do It! conference in Pasadena, and lots of delicious manifesting.

While I was there, I decided to browse the book table for a new nighttime read. Since everyone’s been gushing about E-Squared by Pam Grout, I swiped a copy (well, I didn’t actually steal it; we Hay House authors get a few cool perks, and one of them is free soul schwag).

As you know if you’ve read it, E-Squared is hilarious, easy to understand, and very compelling. The book basically demonstrates how your thoughts create your reality, and it includes nine simple experiments that prove it.

Today, I’m sharing the results from the first experiment from E-Squared and the chain reaction of goodness that I started to notice as a result.

Allow me to set the scene.

I was kinda blue. Two weeks is a long time to be away from home, especially since our new arrival (Buddy) had just joined our family. Plus, Brian had originally planned to be with me for part of the trip (couple time), but since our sweet boy came into our lives, it’s been around-the-clock feeding and care. Loving papa Brian had to take one for the team and stay home. So there I was, alone in my room, reading about energy and missing my crew. Did I mention the dark chocolate covered strawberries and hydrating mud mask?

The Dude Abides…

The first principle is called The Dude abides (after the hilarious film The Big Lebowski). The dude in this scenario is the energy field, Universe, God—whatever you’re cozy with. And the goal of the exercise is to ask and receive—not in two months or years—now. As Pam says, “This experiment will prove to you that there is a loving, abundant, totally hip force in the universe.” Ask for a sign and give the universe 48 hours to deliver and show you it has your back.

I’ve never worked with such a quick turnaround time. It was like ordering something from Amazon Prime. I usually provide plenty of manifesting runway and stay open to the form my intention presents. It doesn’t always materialize exactly as discussed: Know what I mean? For example, you may be calling a new job into your life, praying for it, putting it on your vision board, and actively networking. Not only do you want a new job, you want the work to have meaning; you want to help others and serve. Good for you; great idea. Then poof! Your beloved aunt jets to the next dimension and leaves you gobs of cash. You take that moolah (abundance) and launch YOUR dream charity. See, ya never know how it all shakes out, but it always does. Always.

To take E-Squared’s advice for a spin, I picked something really practical.

“Hi, Universe, it’s Kris Carr from Woodstock, NY, Zip code 12498. Um, I’m reading E-Squared and the author says that you need to give me a specific and exact sign right quick. For the record, I’m not normally this demanding—she made me do it. Anyhooo, if you’re listening, I would like someone to spontaneously hand me a delicious green drink in the next 48 hours. Thanks so much.”

manifesting-waynedyer

I guess I could have aimed higher. But hey, that’s what I needed at the time. So the next day I head to Worldwide Woo Woo headquarters (A.K.A., the Hay House main office). I have lunch with Reid Tracy, the awesome CEO (and I’m not just saying that because I want another book deal) and do some recordings with Bruce Lipton and Davidji, who brought his sweet rescue pooch, Peaches the Buddha Princess, to the sound booth. Next up, a Wayne Dyer visit. He was recording his next book and had just finished an amazing evening with Abraham. As you may imagine, I was in spiritual rock star heaven.

After a thoroughly creative and inspiring day, I grabbed my stuff and shimmied toward the door. Then it happened. Whoa. I stopped dead in my tracks. Guess who was standing there, holding a green juice in his hand and smiling? Reid!

Thank you, dearest Universe. The Dude definitely abided.

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That afternoon, I took a gorgeous sunset stroll. The beautiful green elixir had rejuvenated both my body and my beliefs. As Louise always says, “Life loves you.” Cheers to that.

I often forget to ask for what I need, and I bet you do, too. But that’s not all; sometimes I don’t even notice what I’ve already created, manifested, or called forth into my life. It’s like I’m walking around with blinders on. Of course, it’s important to count our blessings. But it goes deeper. We also have to recognize all the goodness we’ve actively manifested.

And guess what? I bet you’re manifesting a lot more than you realize. Yup. If you haven’t already, it’s time for you to take flight. Let the eagle be your power animal. Observe the majestic mountains, rivers, and meadows that make up your life. Little ole you created a lot of that. So much of our pain comes from the way we drive ourselves into the ground on a daily basis. We’re zooming like maniacs with barely enough time to pause and take in our accomplishments.

The relentless pace blocks us from receiving and celebrating our victories.

We just keep moving on to the next thing before we can truly appreciate our wonderful growth. Gosh, what’s all the hard work worth if we can’t smell the peonies? Can you imagine how good it would feel to periodically give yourself an Oscar acceptance speech? “I’d like to thank the academy (and my angel agents) for this imaginary award. I acknowledge and appreciate how amazing I am. In the last six months, I drastically reduced my cholesterol—without any drugs. Yay, me!”

We make magic constantly. Pause. Breathe. Notice. Praise. Repeat. You’ve come so, so, so far. Pour a cup of tea and brag to yourself. Truly, you’re a miracle creating the miraculous.

Try this with me: Crack open your journal and at the top of the page write “Noticing” and underline it. Next, list three things you’ve actively called into your life.

Here’s an example of another sweet (and very favorite) manifestation.

manifesting-buddy
I’ve written about Buddy’s rescue story in the past, but I forgot to share the most important part.

A few hours before Buddy was found, Brian and I were at our local dump. In addition to unloading garbage and recycling, people can also find unwanted animals at our local transfer station. They have a shelter/adoption center. I always bring cookies and visit the sweet beings. Well, that morning I said to Brian, “I’m ready for another fur baby. Are you?” Full disclosure: I ask this question monthly. He usually responds like a smart therapist: “Honey, this is not a no, it’s a not now.” And I don’t blame him. I travel so much; we’re still wrapping our home renovation; work has been really nutty, etc. (excuse), etc. But that day it was different. That day was the best day ever. That day Brian said, “Yes, I’m ready!” Two hours later, Buddy wandered into our lives . . . . BAM! Manifesting a-go-go!

Your Turn: Share one of your victories in the comments below. The universe and I can’t wait to celebrate you.

Peace & Manifesting,

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  1. Susie says:

    This was an unexpected miracle from a desperate prayer: about a year ago, I developed a sudden very painful toothache on a Friday night. Great, my luck…so being the agnostic I am, when truely desperate I have been known to pray. So I prayed that my tooth pain would go away at least till Monday, when I could set up an ER dentist appointment.

    I prayed for a miracle and went to bed. I awoke the next day to no pain, and it never returned!!! It’s the most profound experience to prayer I have ever had (or at least that I noticed!).

  2. Julie says:

    Aw this is so great to read!! I’ve been working on changing my poverty views, callin in love, good friends, and better health. All these things are manifesting and I have moments (like this morning) of disbelief as I looked at my growing bank account balance and my love letters/texts from friends. It’s all good. It’s ok. I got this. It’s all possible. Thank you so much Kris for your juicy inspiring self xox

  3. Pilar de la Fuente says:

    This is uncanny! I did the experiment myself: I asked for time! I’m a mother of an almost 3 yr old, and I’m studying the health coaching program at IIN. I’m always on a hurry. I asked for time. And ten minutes later I found that there’s no new module opening for studying this week. It will open in a week, next monday. Amazing! Thank you Kris. I love your blog and your style so much!!!

  4. Carly Gutierrez says:

    When I was in my late teens searching for an answer during a confusing time of questioning my Catholic faith I wen toutside and did some journaling. I said I believe in a higher power and I need it to show me that it is there. I don’t know what to call it but I believe please give me a sign. That very moment I felt this energy surge through my body and It made me put my head down adn feel this powerful, amazing, pure energy. I knew that my religious confusion was over. I no longer had to believe what my parents wanted me to believe because I knew that there was a higher power and it showed itself to me that day. To this day I am still agnostic but I believe that mother earth is all the power that I need to believe in.

  5. Daria Zvirgzde says:

    Kris, thank you for the reminder that we can have it all if we devote our love, emotion, energy and faith to it. I am starting my coaching business and I am manifesting every day it reaches out to people who need my help. And it does work. We have to believe and ask for what we want!

  6. Sandy Wilson says:

    The Dude abides – in a hummingbird feather!

  7. Mickey says:

    Absolutely love this! Such a great reminder to notice what we HAVE created. “Pause. Breathe. Notice. Praise. Repeat.” Just brilliant and it made me tear up and release! We can be so dang hard on ourselves and push, push, push… with the endless to do lists, and tasks that never get accomplished…. But we DO accomplish, every day we are miraculous lil beings creating, and being awesome. This has been a great reminder! Thank you, Kris. YOU are on my list of things to NOTICE, as you are such a beacon of inspiration, light and positivity- I’m so grateful to have discovered (manifested) you in my life. Some may never have such luck, the poor souls! Every email from you I gleefully open with anticipation like its from my BFF and I can’t wait to hear what’s new and happenin with you! 😀 Again, thank you for the inspiration, motivation and beauty that you ARE and put into the world. Grateful <3
    ps, i'm ready for a doggy, too 🙂 I can't wait to adopt my own fur baby! EEEEEP!

  8. Jenny Murphy says:

    Thank you. This was so reassuring. Like a warm hug.

    xo

  9. Rachel says:

    Several years ago I was living in New York with my boyfriend Bill. We had two cats named Ashley and Coco. I was a doting mother to both but Coco and I had a special relationship. She followed me around the house and at night slept in the crook of my arm. She was one of the loves of my life and as such I knew her well. So when one day when I noticed she was acting a little off and her belly seemed to be protruding I knew we had to go to the doctor. Not worried so much as being a diligent mom I picked up my child and brought her. Well, the doctor was a good deal more serious than I was about this visit. He told me he was going to have to shave her tummy so he could do an x-ray. I remember vividly saying, “she’s gonna be pussed!” My little joke instead of saying pissed I always said pussed… Miss Coco had her opinions you see. His response is unclear to me to this day and I will not paraphrase. The only word I remember that came out of his mouth was “Cancer” and the jolt of terror and flood of tears that came after. Coco, did indeed have cancer and all my making light of the situation was not going to change that. Furthermore my beloved was given one week to live. She died at the end of that week and though nearly 10 years have passed since her death I still cry as I write this. But this is not a story of sadness but one of joy. This is the story of La’Pu.

    My pain at the loss of my fur daughter was immense and her sister Ashley was also bereft. A few months later and Bill thought it would best for us all to adopt another cat to fill the void left by Coco’s passing. Ashley was lonely and it was clear I missed the special connection Coco and I had. Large shoes (paws?) to fill but we were determined and so started our search. We laid out guidelines: the cat was to be older than a year as Ashley was 10 and a kitten might be too much for her to handle and we thought a boy might be more easily accepted than a girl. OK, easy! Right?

    The first place we went was the ASPCA in NYC. We walked in and immediately were met by the kitten room. WHO CAN RESIST? As I cat lover clearly I could not and we went in. I sat indian style in the middle of the room and up walked Coco’s mini twin. Black with white markings and golden eyes. She climbed into my lap and my eyes filled with tears. I looked at my boyfriend and he knew this was the one.

    “But what about our guidelines? Let’s just check out the other cats here and then we’ll come back.”

    I was reluctant but agreed and as we were looking around La’Pu was adopted. I cannot explain my reaction as the sweet woman who worked at the shelter told me this but I burst into tears again. She was so kind and so generous with me as I told her the story of Coco and how heartbroken I was. As a pet lover she understood and gave me a hug I will never forget. We left empty handed.

    Two months passed and it was almost Christmas. Bill had taken me to other shelters, pet stores and homes where cats were being fostered… He patiently sat beside me as I looked on Petfinder.com and other adoption sites but despite our exhaustive search I did not find my baby. Then one day he came bursting through the door with a flyer. A local church was having a cat adoption fair and we were going to go. I had given up but the void in my life and Ashley’s was something he saw needed to be filled. There was snow on the ground I remember and I’m not a fan of the cold but I agreed and off we went.

    The drive was in the basement of the church. There were stalls and stalls of beautiful babies all looking for a home and I was determined to make a choice and adopt that day. What was I waiting for after all? The connection I felt with that tiny kitten at the ASPCA I would feel again surely, right? Maybe it was just a matter of time.

    We started on the left wall and made our way in a circle around the room. We had been there roughly two hours and I was feeling drained and overwhelmed when I heard, “Rachel?” It was the beautiful woman from the ASPCA that had been so kind to me when I broke into tears. “Rachel, I have La’Pu for you!”

    By some miracle the people who had adopted La’Pu returned her. The woman was allergic and so back she went to the ASPCA.

    My eyes, once again filled with tears but this time tears of joy! I sat on a chair by the cage she was housed in and put her in my lap. The tiny kitten was now a little girl. Again, she curled herself into a little ball and went to sleep.

    Miracles do happen every day if you keep your eyes open and if you call from deep in your heart what you need and desire it will be delivered to you in its highest and best form. La’Pu and I were meant to be and found each other once again in New York City.

    Thank you for letting me share!

    xRachel

    • Marie says:

      Rachel – what a great story.
      I was actually crying with you (out of happiness). 🙂

      Lot of love and light to you, your boyfriend and your cats.

      xx

  10. Sabina Smith says:

    Hi Kris (love & am so grateful for you btw!) I am a 2x breast cancer survivor and recently asked the universe for a sign that I would live to be a healthy old lady. I asked for it to show me a dragonfly, preferably a live one, but any image would do…. much later that evening, while browsing in a second hand shop and admiring all the cool jewels behind the glass, I spotted a beautiful little, sparkly dragonfly pin 🙂 Needless to say I was super happy! XOxo, Sabina

  11. Jan Sloan says:

    The fabulous Universe has been manifesting ‘more prosperity’ in my life. Intention that money flows to me from expected and unexpected sources. Three examples within a week. One: A complimentary Laser Therapy treatment from my Chiropractor to help my injured neck to heal. Two: An unexpected invite from my girlfriend (who’s hubby was sick) to a Wild Life Rescue Gala event to raise funds to help our birdies and lovely wee creatures on this earth. ($120 gifted dinner plate and many other groovy fun things included). I had also been setting an intention to ‘ glam and sexy dress up’ , since my life involves teaching yoga and Pilates and I live in my ‘stretchy casual attire’:) Three: My acupressure holistic massage therapist provided me some incredible ‘warm ear seeds’ to some pressure points in my ear that relate to my kidneys, neck and shaman (spirit) for FREE! Another amazing gift from God! Blessings are everywhere. Ask and yee shall receive!! Now I want my soul mate in my life…come on God, I am ready for an amazing healthy relationship with my man form. Send him now.. please and thank you:)

  12. Lea says:

    Thanks for this beautiful story, loved it and will try it tonight for sure 🙂 will let you know
    xo
    Lea

  13. Thanks for the gorgeous story! We are manifesting all the time and what a great practice to bring our attention to doing it with more conscious intention and attention.

    1) Ask. We ask all the time even by noticing what we don’t want brings more attention to what we do want.
    2) Believe and be in alignment with what you are asking for.
    3) Allow and be open to receiving.

    Step 3 is also happening all the time. I love how Pam’s practice of asking for it to show up in short order really brings our attention to looking out for it presently and noticing what we are receiving.

    A few months ago I asked for a thriving relationship. Within a week my wasband (he used to be my husband) showed up and we found in short order. We were at a point where we easily and joyously met each other on every level. We are living together and are happier than I could of imagined. Yippee!

    xoxo
    Prema

  14. Roberta says:

    I LOVED reading this! I am a little teary eyed with happy emotion.

  15. Barbara Nelson says:

    For most of my adult life I have strived to be a tool of the Universe’s healing. After several attempts and finally putting aside my self doubt I was able to manifest being accepted into Nursing school. With the help of the Universe I will be but a small helper.
    Always gracious of the lessons, love and abundance. Thank you Kris, I met your through a professor at school and ever since you have had a profound impact in my thinking.
    Namaste

  16. Kallau says:

    Thank you Chris for caring and sharing. This blog has reminded me to be aware (among other things) and has brought me back to the present and all that I have moved towards but occasionally lose sight of.
    It’s going to be a fabulous day!

  17. Kallau says:

    Thank you Chris for caring and sharing. This blog has reminded me to be aware (among other things) and has brought me back to the present and all that I have moved towards but occasionally lose sight of.
    It’s going to be a fabulous!

  18. Jane says:

    You are the best! I really enjoy your offerings.
    Here’s to many more.
    Embraces.

  19. Andrea says:

    I love this post, Kris! I just started reading this book also. It is quite amazing how our thoughts shape our reality! Ok, I aimed big during one of the exercises last week, cash flow was low, so of course I asked to manifest money. Within one day, I acquired almost $400 in sales for my essence sprays and Reiki sessions, then the next day a random check came in the mail for $1,600. NO Kidding!!! It was just what I needed, especially before the holidays! It was a check from the lawyers with $ they owed me back from taxes on the house I sold as Short Sale last year. I was shocked and not expecting it at all! It was a long, difficult process to have to go through a short sale on my first home. But, It’s all behind me now, Getting organized and debt free! I feel major shifts in humanity and more and more people are living more consciously. It’s going to be a great year!!

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