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Manifesting Your Desires: A Guide to Asking & Receiving

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Hi Sweet Friends,

In fall 2013, I spent two glorious weeks working with my Hay House family in sunny California. The days were packed with recordings, meetings, dinners (including a fabulous date night with Louise Hay), the spectacular I Can Do It! conference in Pasadena, and lots of delicious manifesting.

While I was there, I decided to browse the book table for a new nighttime read. Since everyone’s been gushing about E-Squared by Pam Grout, I swiped a copy (well, I didn’t actually steal it; we Hay House authors get a few cool perks, and one of them is free soul schwag).

As you know if you’ve read it, E-Squared is hilarious, easy to understand, and very compelling. The book basically demonstrates how your thoughts create your reality, and it includes nine simple experiments that prove it.

Today, I’m sharing the results from the first experiment from E-Squared and the chain reaction of goodness that I started to notice as a result.

Allow me to set the scene.

I was kinda blue. Two weeks is a long time to be away from home, especially since our new arrival (Buddy) had just joined our family. Plus, Brian had originally planned to be with me for part of the trip (couple time), but since our sweet boy came into our lives, it’s been around-the-clock feeding and care. Loving papa Brian had to take one for the team and stay home. So there I was, alone in my room, reading about energy and missing my crew. Did I mention the dark chocolate covered strawberries and hydrating mud mask?

The Dude Abides…

The first principle is called The Dude abides (after the hilarious film The Big Lebowski). The dude in this scenario is the energy field, Universe, God—whatever you’re cozy with. And the goal of the exercise is to ask and receive—not in two months or years—now. As Pam says, “This experiment will prove to you that there is a loving, abundant, totally hip force in the universe.” Ask for a sign and give the universe 48 hours to deliver and show you it has your back.

I’ve never worked with such a quick turnaround time. It was like ordering something from Amazon Prime. I usually provide plenty of manifesting runway and stay open to the form my intention presents. It doesn’t always materialize exactly as discussed: Know what I mean? For example, you may be calling a new job into your life, praying for it, putting it on your vision board, and actively networking. Not only do you want a new job, you want the work to have meaning; you want to help others and serve. Good for you; great idea. Then poof! Your beloved aunt jets to the next dimension and leaves you gobs of cash. You take that moolah (abundance) and launch YOUR dream charity. See, ya never know how it all shakes out, but it always does. Always.

To take E-Squared’s advice for a spin, I picked something really practical.

“Hi, Universe, it’s Kris Carr from Woodstock, NY, Zip code 12498. Um, I’m reading E-Squared and the author says that you need to give me a specific and exact sign right quick. For the record, I’m not normally this demanding—she made me do it. Anyhooo, if you’re listening, I would like someone to spontaneously hand me a delicious green drink in the next 48 hours. Thanks so much.”

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I guess I could have aimed higher. But hey, that’s what I needed at the time. So the next day I head to Worldwide Woo Woo headquarters (A.K.A., the Hay House main office). I have lunch with Reid Tracy, the awesome CEO (and I’m not just saying that because I want another book deal) and do some recordings with Bruce Lipton and Davidji, who brought his sweet rescue pooch, Peaches the Buddha Princess, to the sound booth. Next up, a Wayne Dyer visit. He was recording his next book and had just finished an amazing evening with Abraham. As you may imagine, I was in spiritual rock star heaven.

After a thoroughly creative and inspiring day, I grabbed my stuff and shimmied toward the door. Then it happened. Whoa. I stopped dead in my tracks. Guess who was standing there, holding a green juice in his hand and smiling? Reid!

Thank you, dearest Universe. The Dude definitely abided.

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That afternoon, I took a gorgeous sunset stroll. The beautiful green elixir had rejuvenated both my body and my beliefs. As Louise always says, “Life loves you.” Cheers to that.

I often forget to ask for what I need, and I bet you do, too. But that’s not all; sometimes I don’t even notice what I’ve already created, manifested, or called forth into my life. It’s like I’m walking around with blinders on. Of course, it’s important to count our blessings. But it goes deeper. We also have to recognize all the goodness we’ve actively manifested.

And guess what? I bet you’re manifesting a lot more than you realize. Yup. If you haven’t already, it’s time for you to take flight. Let the eagle be your power animal. Observe the majestic mountains, rivers, and meadows that make up your life. Little ole you created a lot of that. So much of our pain comes from the way we drive ourselves into the ground on a daily basis. We’re zooming like maniacs with barely enough time to pause and take in our accomplishments.

The relentless pace blocks us from receiving and celebrating our victories.

We just keep moving on to the next thing before we can truly appreciate our wonderful growth. Gosh, what’s all the hard work worth if we can’t smell the peonies? Can you imagine how good it would feel to periodically give yourself an Oscar acceptance speech? “I’d like to thank the academy (and my angel agents) for this imaginary award. I acknowledge and appreciate how amazing I am. In the last six months, I drastically reduced my cholesterol—without any drugs. Yay, me!”

We make magic constantly. Pause. Breathe. Notice. Praise. Repeat. You’ve come so, so, so far. Pour a cup of tea and brag to yourself. Truly, you’re a miracle creating the miraculous.

Try this with me: Crack open your journal and at the top of the page write “Noticing” and underline it. Next, list three things you’ve actively called into your life.

Here’s an example of another sweet (and very favorite) manifestation.

manifesting-buddy
I’ve written about Buddy’s rescue story in the past, but I forgot to share the most important part.

A few hours before Buddy was found, Brian and I were at our local dump. In addition to unloading garbage and recycling, people can also find unwanted animals at our local transfer station. They have a shelter/adoption center. I always bring cookies and visit the sweet beings. Well, that morning I said to Brian, “I’m ready for another fur baby. Are you?” Full disclosure: I ask this question monthly. He usually responds like a smart therapist: “Honey, this is not a no, it’s a not now.” And I don’t blame him. I travel so much; we’re still wrapping our home renovation; work has been really nutty, etc. (excuse), etc. But that day it was different. That day was the best day ever. That day Brian said, “Yes, I’m ready!” Two hours later, Buddy wandered into our lives . . . . BAM! Manifesting a-go-go!

Your Turn: Share one of your victories in the comments below. The universe and I can’t wait to celebrate you.

Peace & Manifesting,

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  1. Andie Raynor says:

    Thanks, Kris! Just what I needed today. Guess the Dude abided! xo

  2. Mary-Anne says:

    This is a great little companion book to the book I put 100% faith in and has never let me down……”The Bible.” God is above all else but I do believe He works through these spirtual guides to lead us towards Him, as in the end, that is all that matters. “Pray, Belive, Receive.”

  3. Jennifer Harmon says:

    I am starting to notice all miracles and love the energy this lady has! Wonderful example if living!

  4. Hi Kris,

    Thank you for sharing your amazing stories. I truly believe in the power of positive thinking. I follow Dr Wayne Dyer as well as you and love your Light.

    On September 7, I had my first solo art exhibition of an emotional series entitled “A Renewal of Spirit: Exhibition of Queen Anne’s Lace & Other Works”. I decided to share both the personal and the universal stories behind the series, the personal leaving me exposed, but I feel it fostered a connection to my guests and fans. The series helped me evolve as an artist and mother by creating healing images through Nature, expressing emotions, experimenting with color, and exploring the ideas of life after death and of a mother’s protection.

    On the night before opening day, I asked for the weather to be dry and beautiful, like Autumn, so that the guests would be comfortable. And what a gorgeous, pleasantly cool day it was! My second wish was to be able to talk to everyone that visited. There were so many people (an amazing three hundred guests!) that the day is a blur but I do hope I was able to approach everyone. My third wish or thought was that I would be happy to be able to sell two or three paintings. Throughout the opening, each time a sale was made, the gallery owner, Sam Ruest, would announce “May I have your attention please? Painting #9 of the Queen Anne’s Lace series has sold! Congratulations, Allison.” Then Sam would proceed to shake my father’s hand. After the sixth announcement I lost it. I was overwhelmed that there was a connection so strong that people were actually buying the paintings. I sold eighteen pieces that day and four more in the weeks following. I am still flying from that day and from the outpouring of love and support from my friends and family and new connections. My wishes came true!

  5. Meredith says:

    You are wonderful! I love you! Thanks for always saying the perfect things.

  6. Elisa Lionne says:

    Wow Kris! The dude abides! I started reading E-squared on Saturday and the 48 hours of my first experiment ended today. It’s you! It’s your blog post. I didn’t ask for anything specific. Just for a clear sign from “the dude”. So here I am thinking that I didn’t receive an obvious sign within the last 48 hours and then I read your subject line and think, “Wait whaaat?” Hello synchronicity! I’m so grateful for this sign. Thank you for writing this article Kris! You are my miracle of the day. Lots of love and keep on manifesting and noticing (!) all the greatness in your life. xx

  7. Vari says:

    I have manifested so many amazing things into my life, and have always been aware of how I can get pretty much get anything I want. I’m from the UK, but wanted to live in AZ, after several years, I finally met my now husband, and we have an incredible 3 year old daughter. I wanted to work in a Montessori school, and do the training, but the only AMI training was in San Diego or Colorado, and I couldn’t do that til my daughter was older. She is at an amazing school, and one day asked if there were any available assistant positions. there wasn’t, but only a couple of days later, one opened up, and within 24 hrs, I had the job. At the interview, they informed me that they now have AMI training at the school and would I be interested in doing it. Heck yes! I’ve been wanting my husband to move out of the contracting world, and a family came into our lives, that just so happened to be able to get him a foot in the door, to a steady, stable career, with benefits. Now I’m trying to manifest being debt free, and move to a new house in the area. So that big glob of cash in on my list 🙂

  8. Aideen says:

    Loved this blog post so much Kris! You are such an inspiring lady! Thank for reminding me to take things slowly in this crazy world and to stop and smell the roses. Buddy’s rescue is so heart warming, you and Brian will make fantastic puppy parents for buddy. God bless you always.

  9. Amandananda says:

    The Universe cracks open right where you are . . . Every time! It’s up to us to notice.
    Love it!

  10. Neli says:

    Last night I looked at the stars and specifically requested for something to come to my life and take me out of the blue mood ASAP. I have an oncology check up appointment today, working on letting go of some past family hurts, had a busy weekend… I guess it all ganged up on me… Your e-mail this morning is for me the answer/manifestation. Thank you Kris!

  11. goose says:

    You can ask for things NOT to happen as well. If it doesnt feel right the universe will make it go away. Fun stuff!

  12. Arlene Wilkinson says:

    Any chance of you posting the recipe for the delicious green drink you manifested?

  13. Lynne Ervin-Lombardi says:

    I love reading your books, listening to your messages, seeing you live your truth…so inspiring, refreshing and helpful to me, while I learn to find and live my truth. So grateful!

    Thanks Kris!

  14. jodee keller says:

    Hi Kris,
    I hope you are fabulous this morning!
    I’m sure that you are. I am your neighbor in Kingston, and was living in Zena up until 4 years ago.

    I have three children who went to Zena elementary school (on Sawkill rd. At Woodstock border.) You may know about it …how our school was closed in June. It has been a very challenging year , and I have been wishing for a better school to magically present itself as another option.

    Although that has not happened yet, I made a decision to help the school where they now attend to become a better place. I even ran for PTO president and won, not like me, lol, so that I could watch what was going on in the building.

    One of my wishes is to have a Friday night once a month where we watch movies or discuss someone or something that inspired people …and your crazy sexy Cancer video I thought might be a good one. I also love the Fat Sick and Nearly Dead movie. Another cool idea was to invite guests, like a local single mom who teaches others for free, how to extreme coupon. Another idea was to have kids pick a cause and make it happen. My daughter wants to collect gently used team uniforms for kids who want to okay recreation soccer etc. but cannot afford the uniforms.

    I spent these first few months of this school year identifying problematic issues in the school and how to help fix them. Or where the road blocks lie. Baby steps.

    Huge work is ahead of us, and I believe that when I closed my eyes and focused on my wish, G-d gave me the strength to take as many action steps in the of meantime, to speed up that process of finding, or simply “being” in a better school.

    Maybe someday we will run into each other at one of my favorite places like Sunfrost, and you can meet my awesome kiddos and hubby. (They watch and read with me your blogs.)

    I guess my point here is that sometimes the end product may not always appear in 48 hours, but the strength to guide us to the end product will, and that strength is really just as important in our journey. Or at least in my opinion.
    Here’s to the journey!
    Jodee Keller

    • Christy says:

      I have a question that might seem judgmental, but is not meant to be at all. In your post, you state that you asked God for something. Why did you type G*d? I am honestly just curious because I have never seen this before.

      I admire the work you are trying to do to make your kids’ school a better place. And, your daughter’s idea to collect gently used team uniforms is brilliant. I have 4 of them, where can I donate them?

      Have a blessed day!

    • Kris Carr says:

      That’s fantastic work you’re doing. I totally agree. Hope to meet you too! Lots of love,
      your neighbor

  15. Ooh, I literally JUST finished watching a Deepak Chopra lecture (for my Institute for Integrative Nutrition studies) on manifestation, divine power, abundance and soul-based work, when your little ray of sunshine appeared in my inbox! Thank you for sharing, Kris. I’ll be manifesting some magic tonight, fingers crossed! 🙂 x

  16. Elaine Matsumoto says:

    Kris, you continue to inspire me and make me smile. Have loved your books and shared them with others. My heart and soul are most definitely on the same page with you!!I am going to try this manifesting thing for sure. Oh did I mention that Wayne Dyer is someone I love to listen to and read? Someday I would love to sit down with him and talk. I would love to do that with you, too.
    Thank you for living your amazing life and sharing it with me and others!
    Love,
    Elaine

  17. Kim says:

    Kris – I manifested something! I asked for a sign that I would be able to make it to an amazing conference yesterday and it came true that night!

    It’s really amazing and wonderful! BTW, I just watched your documentary – it was very powerful.
    xoxo,
    Kimberly

  18. Brittany says:

    I love this blog today! I really need it! My husband and I are away from each other for the first time since our marriage! We starte off long distance, but once we got married- we’ve been together everyday. His work unexpectedly called for a month of separation and I’ve gone 2 days without hearing from him due to security reasons. I’m expecting an email any day now but this exercise has spurred me to ask for one now please. I need it more than I imagined. This is the first time since our first date that I have gone a day without even a text from him. He’s been my best friend and suddenly without him, it just makes me feel like something is missing. Thank goodness for family and creating laughs to enjoy myself until this email floats in!!! I already feel it coming!!! :)))

  19. Cinthia says:

    Thanks for sharing your experience, Kris! I’ve always been a fan of manifesting, visualizing and seen the results. I haven’t experimented (consciously) with a 48hr response, but now that you mention it, just a few days ago I was searching for flights to India, where I will be studying yoga for a few months. The prices were more expensive than I remember, so I was a little disappointed about that. I waited a couple of days. Tried a slightly different search and the price went down by half! Crazy right? The universe does provide you with what you need 🙂

  20. Radell says:

    Kris,

    I love your blogs!! They crack me up. I am sitting on a bus heading into work and this was a nice little chuckle. You have such a light spirit in your words.

    I loved hearing about your manifesting! I do it some times with people.. I share some energy that I would love the person to come sit beside me so I can just talk with them and say Hi. People I don’t know but look super cool beans. And most of the time over they come and sit down next to me. It is amazing how much life wants to give to you.. If we only take the time to peacefully ask 🙂
    Xo R

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