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Manifesting Your Desires: A Guide to Asking & Receiving

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Hi Sweet Friends,

In fall 2013, I spent two glorious weeks working with my Hay House family in sunny California. The days were packed with recordings, meetings, dinners (including a fabulous date night with Louise Hay), the spectacular I Can Do It! conference in Pasadena, and lots of delicious manifesting.

While I was there, I decided to browse the book table for a new nighttime read. Since everyone’s been gushing about E-Squared by Pam Grout, I swiped a copy (well, I didn’t actually steal it; we Hay House authors get a few cool perks, and one of them is free soul schwag).

As you know if you’ve read it, E-Squared is hilarious, easy to understand, and very compelling. The book basically demonstrates how your thoughts create your reality, and it includes nine simple experiments that prove it.

Today, I’m sharing the results from the first experiment from E-Squared and the chain reaction of goodness that I started to notice as a result.

Allow me to set the scene.

I was kinda blue. Two weeks is a long time to be away from home, especially since our new arrival (Buddy) had just joined our family. Plus, Brian had originally planned to be with me for part of the trip (couple time), but since our sweet boy came into our lives, it’s been around-the-clock feeding and care. Loving papa Brian had to take one for the team and stay home. So there I was, alone in my room, reading about energy and missing my crew. Did I mention the dark chocolate covered strawberries and hydrating mud mask?

The Dude Abides…

The first principle is called The Dude abides (after the hilarious film The Big Lebowski). The dude in this scenario is the energy field, Universe, God—whatever you’re cozy with. And the goal of the exercise is to ask and receive—not in two months or years—now. As Pam says, “This experiment will prove to you that there is a loving, abundant, totally hip force in the universe.” Ask for a sign and give the universe 48 hours to deliver and show you it has your back.

I’ve never worked with such a quick turnaround time. It was like ordering something from Amazon Prime. I usually provide plenty of manifesting runway and stay open to the form my intention presents. It doesn’t always materialize exactly as discussed: Know what I mean? For example, you may be calling a new job into your life, praying for it, putting it on your vision board, and actively networking. Not only do you want a new job, you want the work to have meaning; you want to help others and serve. Good for you; great idea. Then poof! Your beloved aunt jets to the next dimension and leaves you gobs of cash. You take that moolah (abundance) and launch YOUR dream charity. See, ya never know how it all shakes out, but it always does. Always.

To take E-Squared’s advice for a spin, I picked something really practical.

“Hi, Universe, it’s Kris Carr from Woodstock, NY, Zip code 12498. Um, I’m reading E-Squared and the author says that you need to give me a specific and exact sign right quick. For the record, I’m not normally this demanding—she made me do it. Anyhooo, if you’re listening, I would like someone to spontaneously hand me a delicious green drink in the next 48 hours. Thanks so much.”

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I guess I could have aimed higher. But hey, that’s what I needed at the time. So the next day I head to Worldwide Woo Woo headquarters (A.K.A., the Hay House main office). I have lunch with Reid Tracy, the awesome CEO (and I’m not just saying that because I want another book deal) and do some recordings with Bruce Lipton and Davidji, who brought his sweet rescue pooch, Peaches the Buddha Princess, to the sound booth. Next up, a Wayne Dyer visit. He was recording his next book and had just finished an amazing evening with Abraham. As you may imagine, I was in spiritual rock star heaven.

After a thoroughly creative and inspiring day, I grabbed my stuff and shimmied toward the door. Then it happened. Whoa. I stopped dead in my tracks. Guess who was standing there, holding a green juice in his hand and smiling? Reid!

Thank you, dearest Universe. The Dude definitely abided.

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That afternoon, I took a gorgeous sunset stroll. The beautiful green elixir had rejuvenated both my body and my beliefs. As Louise always says, “Life loves you.” Cheers to that.

I often forget to ask for what I need, and I bet you do, too. But that’s not all; sometimes I don’t even notice what I’ve already created, manifested, or called forth into my life. It’s like I’m walking around with blinders on. Of course, it’s important to count our blessings. But it goes deeper. We also have to recognize all the goodness we’ve actively manifested.

And guess what? I bet you’re manifesting a lot more than you realize. Yup. If you haven’t already, it’s time for you to take flight. Let the eagle be your power animal. Observe the majestic mountains, rivers, and meadows that make up your life. Little ole you created a lot of that. So much of our pain comes from the way we drive ourselves into the ground on a daily basis. We’re zooming like maniacs with barely enough time to pause and take in our accomplishments.

The relentless pace blocks us from receiving and celebrating our victories.

We just keep moving on to the next thing before we can truly appreciate our wonderful growth. Gosh, what’s all the hard work worth if we can’t smell the peonies? Can you imagine how good it would feel to periodically give yourself an Oscar acceptance speech? “I’d like to thank the academy (and my angel agents) for this imaginary award. I acknowledge and appreciate how amazing I am. In the last six months, I drastically reduced my cholesterol—without any drugs. Yay, me!”

We make magic constantly. Pause. Breathe. Notice. Praise. Repeat. You’ve come so, so, so far. Pour a cup of tea and brag to yourself. Truly, you’re a miracle creating the miraculous.

Try this with me: Crack open your journal and at the top of the page write “Noticing” and underline it. Next, list three things you’ve actively called into your life.

Here’s an example of another sweet (and very favorite) manifestation.

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I’ve written about Buddy’s rescue story in the past, but I forgot to share the most important part.

A few hours before Buddy was found, Brian and I were at our local dump. In addition to unloading garbage and recycling, people can also find unwanted animals at our local transfer station. They have a shelter/adoption center. I always bring cookies and visit the sweet beings. Well, that morning I said to Brian, “I’m ready for another fur baby. Are you?” Full disclosure: I ask this question monthly. He usually responds like a smart therapist: “Honey, this is not a no, it’s a not now.” And I don’t blame him. I travel so much; we’re still wrapping our home renovation; work has been really nutty, etc. (excuse), etc. But that day it was different. That day was the best day ever. That day Brian said, “Yes, I’m ready!” Two hours later, Buddy wandered into our lives . . . . BAM! Manifesting a-go-go!

Your Turn: Share one of your victories in the comments below. The universe and I can’t wait to celebrate you.

Peace & Manifesting,

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  1. leigh ann says:

    Just as I was beginning to believe all of my passion was pointless, I read this. I will, today, begin to believe that there is a reason I do what I do and that it is worth the time out of my life to keep doing it. Thank you.

  2. Tearahni says:

    I manifested my soul mate/Twin Flame into my life recently! I couldn’t be happier with who that/ he turned out to be, someone I already “knew”!

  3. kdmich says:

    Thanks, Kris — this is wonderful:-)

    I’m beginning to take stock of what I’ve manifested, but the most recent one was a true biggie.

    We were in a quandry about where to send our daughter to high school. There was only one school on my mind — a creative, inclusive, academically-awesome spot close to home. But there was one huge catch: It is mind-boggling expensive. Tuition is akin to what top private colleges charge. We are at one income right now, and in some serious debt. I’ve driven by this school so many times with dreams supercharged about it, yet I had to fight thru many limiting beliefs about our chances of getting access.

    In late winter, my daughter learned she’d been put on the school’s wait list. I knew it had to do with our finances. Still, I thought there must be a chance since they didn’t deny her outright. One day I told my daughter to “get dressed, I’m driving you to school.” She thought I was crazy because her middle school had the day off. But I drove her to the dreamed-of high school, pretending as if it was her school. She pretended too. We felt supercharged energetically.

    Around this time, my husband and I were shocked to find out that we would be receiving money from a surprise source that would allow us to offer more towards tuition. Shortly after, the high school admissions co-director called to say our daughter had been accepted, and they were going to cover over half the cost of tuition!

    There are so many more stories I could share, but needless to say, the energy of the Universe is beyond bountiful. And as healers and communicators we have the obligation to share this good news. Thank you for always doing your part, Kris:-)

  4. Emily says:

    I asked the dude for my period. It’s usually right on (my) time at 32/33 days, but it was 10 days late, and we are getting ready to start trying to conceive. I was feeling really rattled at being so off, had taken a pregnancy test and am not pregnant. So, here I am, about 30 hours later after writing my little note, cramps and tampon and all. I’ll be checking out this book. Thank you Kris, Thank you Universe, Thank you myself for asking!

  5. leah kitts says:

    Being in between jobs is really hard, especially when I have recently been forced to live on unemployment. Just yesterday, I took my paddle board out at 7am & found a $10. bill floating on the ocean floor. This is a promise to me of universal abundance. I also went out this morning for a swim & a small fish kept swimming in front of my goggles. This went on for about 100meters! This is a promise that I am not alone.
    Thanks for sharing your story of inspiration too!!

    Leah

  6. Janet says:

    I manifested an amazing man into my life. We have so much in common and met through a mutual friend. Feeling blessed that I had the past few years of single me time to really enjoy this new coupleness..

  7. Patricia Thompson says:

    Hi Kris,
    After writing NOTICING, in my journal I wrote down three things that I manifested in my life. I’m starting a new business up this summer that I am confident about, some money for some over dew bills, and then it struck me. I have manifested 3 beautiful and inspiring women in my life that are keeping me motivated. Thank you Kate Northrup, Gabrielle Burnstien and of course you. At the beautiful age of 64, I feel like I’m coming out of the dark. Blessings to all.

  8. john says:

    Regarding the example under the heading The Dude Abides, regarding the aunt who passed away, does this mean you are inadvertently responsible for killing your aunt by wishing for a better job?

  9. Juliette says:

    I love your story. I too read E-Squared and asked the Universe to have my husband make a fabulous fruit filled brunch. The next morning he did! The funny thing is…he never cooks! So I knew where it came from. I use this tool all the time and have been since I read The Secret. There it told me to “act as if” and have gratitude for what I have instead of dissatisfaction. I acted as if I had a Mercedes instead of my Saturn and in three weeks through a series of very, very strange events…I got a Mercedes same color and same year as the one I had placed on my vision board. xo, J

  10. Julia says:

    I just wrote down that I wanted to hear from any random friend via text, email or any message. In less than 10 mts two different friends texted me!!! I am wowzed!!! I am so happy! The Dude definitely abides!!! Thank you Pam & Kriss!! 🙂

  11. I’ve been blue lately. I started a wonderful fulfilling business last year and I couldn’t be happier about that! I make handmade crochet clothes/accessories. However it can be very hard to keep afloat when you start out! I should also mention that I am an actor! And as anyone in the business knows contracts are few and far between. For the last year I have really wanted a dress form mannequin to help me with my work and made a statement that I was going to get one. Even if I didn’t have the funds. It was my dad’s birthday ( he passed away 10 years ago) And I asked him and the universe to give me a sign to keep going. Then I let go. Within hours I see a post on facebook ” dress form to give”. It was around 8:00pm at night. I told the girl I would take it! I picked up the phone called my mom ( who was already in bed) and told her my situation. She got out of bed and we picked up the mannequin. I’ve learnt time and time again to be clear with what you want. And to trust in the universe!

  12. Katie says:

    this is GREAT advice. thank you for sharing!! i needed this. <3

  13. kathy says:

    love you Kris Carr!

  14. Frances B says:

    Many thanks for this. Going to give it a try straight away and I’ve faith that I’d receive what I’ve so ardently been seeking. My request is very specific and will let you know results.

  15. Susan Johnson Royse says:

    about a year ago, I was in some financial trouble and I was laying in bed and I threw up a prayer to the Lord, the Universe and my Mother (who had recently passed away). I said that I just needed $10,000.00 to pay off my debts and I thanked them and went to sleep…(this is the one time I didn’t question in my head how this could happen)…the next morning I had a message on facebook from my eldest son’s father. Up until now, he had blocked me on Facebook and had been hiding from me for about 13 years so that he didn’t have to pay child support. The inboxed message was from him (my son’s father) and he asked if I would call him. I did, and he said to me, “I want to offer you a settlement, (he owed me $56,000.00), I was wondering if you would take $20,000.00! He said, you can think about it if you’d like and get back to me. I did not have to think about it, I said yes and then I thanked my trio who had just provided for me within 12 hours of asking! How awesome is that?

  16. Cupcake says:

    When I was approaching 50 years of age, when I asked for the man of my dreams….and I am now married to him. I recently asked for the property we dreamed of, and we moved here last year. Everyone is amazed with our beautiful place and I am constantly asked how I found it. Thank you for a perfect article.

  17. Becky says:

    I’m working my way through that book, too! For my Dude Abides sign I chose a “gift with a bow on it.” The next day, the temp at our office had her husband bring in lunch for everyone – even making sure to have a vegan lunch for me. The company’s logo that was plastered on everything? A big, red bow. I love the universe’s sense of humor. My current experiment is to attract the funds to pay for the next big venture in my business. Can’t wait!

  18. Cynthia Snapp says:

    I manifested my sweet twin boys Rogan and Berkeley and my loving partner Shannon. I think due to manifesting yoga in my life, which is what returns me to me whenever I step onto my mat, I’ve been able to manifest.

  19. Denise O'Reilly says:

    I bought a diary today so that I could start to write down everyday what I am grateful for and so far this year things are going well and I am happier than I have been for a long time. I lost my husband, my soul mate in November 2013 very suddenly. I asked my angels at New Year to help me to start feeling happy and positive about the future and someone sent me the link to your post. Thank you for your positive energy and I am grateful to my friend that sent the link.

  20. anila says:

    HAPPY NEW YEAR, Kris. Thanks for sharing the story! Very inspirational! I will definitely check out the book. I manifested my house, my healthy, loving marriage and so many things in the course of a year. I’m so grateful for life and the love that manifests all the time.
    All the best!
    anila

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