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My top 9 must-read inspiring books

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Hi Sweet Friends,

The first leaves of fall are starting to pop up at my farmette and the slight chill in the air has me reaching for my cozy sweaters. I don’t know about you, but when the weather starts to cool down, I start thinking about my grade school days. And even though it’s been a decade or two-ish (ahem) since I started my mornings in homeroom, I’m still perpetually in school (and I still buy new notebooks).

Life itself has grown into one big ole workshop fueled by inspiring books and I don’t even want to skip class these days!

If you’re familiar with my journey, you know that I became a full-time health sleuth after my diagnosis. Books were my teachers, the Internet was my classroom and blood tests were my grades. Over the years, reading has become as much a part of my health practice as meditating (my nightstand is actually hazardous). I dog-ear pages. I highlight. I re-read and then read again. I scribble in the margins. I have a personal relationship with my books.

Nowadays, what really gets my gray matter fired up is reading about mental, spiritual and emotional health.

After years of crunching numbers to figure out all my necessary nutrients and becoming snuggly familiar with anatomy (and my excrements!), I can’t wait to sit down with books that ignite my creative lighter fluid. Whether it’s about writing well, staying sane or exploring why our magnificent brains work in certain ways, I’m immersed in the wellness of the mind.

So, I curated some of my favorite tiles, covering my go-to resources, most loved page-turners, plus a few super-exciting titles that will be hitting the shelves this fall. Sharpen your pencils, friends. Class is in session!

My top 10 must-read inspiring books list

Broken Open, Elizabeth Lesser

Life gets messy. That’s always gonna be true. But it’s what we do in those messy times—and, particularly, what we get out of them—that make them worthwhile and interesting. Elizabeth uses her own deeply personal and gloriously raw experiences to guide readers through being open in the hard times. She’s one of my favorite writers and this book in particular contains countless soul aha’s. It’s sorta like my spiritual woobie.

How to Meditate, by Pema Chodron

Straightforward and kind. Those are two amazing qualities in any person, but they’re especially important in a meditation maestro. Yes, there are many books that tell you why you should meditate, but Pema makes it available to even the most fidgety of folks.

The Law of Divine Compensation, by Marianne Williamson

Putting your principles into action is what this book is all about. Marianne, as many of you probably already know, is one of the country’s best-loved spirituality writers. In this book, she makes the ideas laid out in A Course in Miracles accessible, and applies them to our financial well-being.

Mom & Me & Mom, by Maya Angelou

My mom gave me this book so we could connect further expand our relationship—and we did just that. This book is a spiritual memoir page turner! And the roller coaster ride these two women went on is cinema-worthy—as is the profound love, respect and forgiveness that shaped their relationship. There’s no one quite like Maya to explore what it means to be a daughter, then her own woman, and then discover a relationship with her mother again. Oh, and there is definitely no one like Maya Angelou’s mother! As my own grandma would say “She’s a pistol packing mama”—literally!

Money: A Love Story, by Kate Northrup

What I love about this book is Kate’s approach. Sure, there are a zillion books out there that teach you how to set up savings accounts. But Kate nails the root of our money insecurities. She knows that when we truly value ourselves, we can heal our relationship with money, and then spend in a way that lines up with who we are at our core. Kate recently visited the farmette and I just loved chatting with her in this quick video! Check it out.

Red Hot & Holy, by Sera Beak

Do you have a unique relationship with the Divine (that’s big D, not divine as in chocolate)? My sweet friend Sera does, but it took her years of trial, tribulation and a few ooh la la saucy encounters to settle down. This woman is wild and free and on fire. Red Hot & Holy (another spiritual page turner) will take your on a ride! It’s sexual, ripped open, devout and filled with the sort of realness that very few authors dare to reveal. I. Was. Blown. Away.

The Tapping Solution, by Nick Ortner

Tapping (aka Emotional Freedom Technique or EFT) has been one of the most valuable practices that I’ve embraced in my daily life. It helps me work through mental and physical challenges with relative ease and it’s literally at my fingertips at any moment. I adore this book, and as many of you know, I also adore Nick Ortner. Though he’s my brother from another mother, I’m not playing favorite when I say that this book will change your life. If you’ve ever wondered how tapping really works, Nick backs up the “how” here with the “why,” including the science behind tapping. For a quick introduction, step into my kitchen. In this video, Nick and I lead you through the basic EFT practice—it’ll take five minutes to learn!

True Refuge, by Tara Brach

I’m in deep awe of Tara Brach and I need more of her in my life! This book is a way home—home to yourself. Tara breaks down the illusions and, as she calls them, “false refuges” that can distract us when we’re seeking ourselves. She reminds readers that the true refuge is accepting the present, and all that it brings. Like so many Buddhist teachings, this sounds a lot more simple than it actually is! But Tara really makes it doable with her teachings in this priceless book.

Why I Wake Early, by Mary Oliver

Oh, poetry. Just writing the word makes me feel more interesting. Ha! But in all seriousness, there’s something subtle and grounding about the way that Mary uses her short, neat words. This book in particular celebrates all the many wonderful parts of nature. I often read poetry before I start writing. It gets the muse juices flowing. And since I love spirit and nature so much, Mary is a go-to source. Once again, my mom turned me on to her work (sheesh, that woman has good taste!).

Your turn: What book has inspired you lately?

Peace & page turners,

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  1. Kaitlyn says:

    Love this list! I already have a few of them (one will be on pre-order soon). I can’t wait to add the rest to my wishlist

  2. Carolyn says:

    Hi Kris – thanks for sharing this insightful list I am still on summer break until October so looking forward to reading some of these real soon 🙂
    My recents are E2 by Pam Grout – Simple Scientific experiments to literally prove to yourself that the Universe is a loving intention which you can tap into at any time 🙂 WOW

    Also Infinite Abundance by my Tai Chi master and life mentor, Jason Chan – A.M.A.Z.I.N.G !!!

    Thanks again
    Love

  3. Jenni says:

    Loving Danielle LaPorte’s Fire Starting Sessions – the Desire Map is on my list too 🙂 thanks for more ideas Kris!

  4. Patti says:

    Great list, Kris. Thanks for sharing. Life doesn’t feel complete without a few books on my nightstand.

    Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver keeps me coming back to trusting and letting go. Hands of Light by Barbara Brennan completely changed my life and my vocation. The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying is quite the page turner!

    Happy Reading, Everyone!!

  5. Christy says:

    I adore Broken Open, as well as The Seeker’s Guide, also by Lesser. But, recently I’ve listened to Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver and that is really changing my spiritual life in big ways! Thanks for posting this, Kris! I am headed to the library now! 😉

  6. Katie says:

    I am in the middle of Daring Greatly right now. It is ripping me wide open. I have had a couple major realizations about my past and my current actions because of this book. I recommend it to EVERYONE. Once I’m finished I’m going to dive into your list.

  7. Linda says:

    The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. A life changer 🙂

  8. Meryem says:

    Hello Kris,

    Thanks for sharing, I am a book lover and I tend always to read what makes me undertand and know more about me. I am a lifestyle practician and I am reading “The power of Habit” of Charles DUHIGG. Simply amazing.
    It explains how our brains develop habits, and how we can improve change our life by changing very small habits.

    This is it 😀 keep sharing and giving, you’re a thrill.

    Love from Lisbon.

    Mery.

  9. lisa says:

    Daring Greatly by Brene Brown. Heavy on the science but a fascinating read on why we need more vulnerability in our scarcity culture.

  10. Vicki says:

    Hi there,

    I am enjoying Pam Grout’s “E2”. Everything we desire is right at our finger tips.

  11. teri says:

    Thank you for your lovely must read list! You mentioned that you read about learning to write well, and that’s exactly what I’m looking for. Something around the psychology of writing, or copywriting. I want to dig deeper into how to touch my readers at their deepest emotional level and how to inspire them to take action. Any suggestions? Love your work Kris!

  12. What a great list ! I’m excited to read all if them! Thanks for sharing!
    My go to is the Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. It is so simple yet so powerful!
    Xo

  13. Jo-Lynne says:

    Great Recommends from Kris. I would add I would add Daring Greatly by Brené Brown and There Is No App for Happiness by Max Strom.

  14. Jeannie says:

    Rob Breszny’s Pronoia is one of my go-to books. The poetry of Pablo Neruda – I tried to relearn Spanish by reading it in the original and then went to Mexico and realized I could talk about feathers and ladders and rocks and passion but couldn’t order food in a restaurant. Which turned out to be perfect. Everything Michael Pollan writes. Any book about unusual art – current fave is Natural Fashion – Tribal Decoration from Africa (check it out – gorgeous!).

  15. Alex says:

    Cheri Huber’s books – but specifically Making a Change for Good and There is Nothing Wrong with You. These are life transforming books that literally hands-on taught me how to direct the attention to what I want in my life via awareness practice. The first book I mentioned even includes a 30-day retreat at the end. Mucho cool!

  16. RachelD says:

    Discover the power of meridian tapping by Patrica Carrington
    Woman Code by Alisa Vitti
    The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
    Changes That Heal by Henry Cloud
    Lucky by Alice Sebold
    Radical Woomanhood by Carolyn McCully
    Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
    Crazy Love by Francis Chan
    The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd
    The Street Lawyer by John Grisham
    A Time to Kill by John Grisham
    The Help by Katheryn Stockett

  17. Casey says:

    I am currently reading one of the most inspiring books I have ever read – which should be familiar – Crazy Sexy Diet. Kris, a friend recommended your book and as soon as I picked it up, I couldn’t stop reading it. I love how informative, sassy, and fun it is to read. Thank you for sharing your journey and wisdom!

  18. Thank you so much for this list, Kris- some of them I’ve heard of, but I’m so excited to try the ones that I haven’t (I’m such a bookworm!) Love that you included a bit of poetry too!

    The last phenomenal book that I read was ‘Wild’, by Cheryl Strayed, which completely took my breath away and made me want to grab my rucksack and go trekking in the wilderness as soon as I’d finished it! Have been looking for new suggestions for a while and these are just perfect.

    Thank you!
    Katie x

  19. Ophira Edut says:

    Love these recommendations! We always recommend books in our horoscopes (including yours, lovely Kris), so we compiled a whole Amazon spiritual and self-growth library for seekers. So many great ones on love, money, reincarnation, family healing, spiritual growth, psychology, etc.!

  20. I had the pleasure of attending Tara Brach’s workshop at Omega this summer and it was truly life changing.

    I LOOOOOOOVED and would recommend Michael Neill’s Inside Out Revolution.

    I also have on my desk Daring Greatly (Brene Brown) , The Big Leap (Gay Hendricks) and Untethered Soul (Michael Singer)

    • Libby Wagner says:

      I think The Big Leap is a great one to add to this list. As well, anything by poet David Whyte, including: The Three Marriages, Crossing the Unknown Sea and his poetry collections, especially Riverflow and Pilgrim. Simply beautiful and inspiring!

      Thanks for your inspiration, always, Kris!

      Libby

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