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If You Don’t Ask, The Universe Can’t Deliver!

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Happy Holidays, Dearest!

Did you believe in Santa when you were a kid?

If this tradition wasn’t part of your cultural upbringing let me share what it was like. It was a time when anything was possible. Consumerism aside, the big guy in the red suit still reminds me of the cheerful, hopeful kid inside. I love Santa to this day. If you’re feeling like you could use a dose of magical thinking to lift your spirits and launch your desires, especially as you head into the new year, this blog might get your creative juices flowing again.

And in case you need a refresher, here’s the kind of Santa-joy I’m talking about…

Now, more about Mr. Claus.

A jolly chap from a whimsical land works with elves to make toys and gather presents for all the children in the world. Some elves are the craftsman, others do gift wrapping and card writing. Reindeer cruise around without predators and everyone lives in happy harmony. Mrs. Claus (an incredible pastry chef) serves cookies for breakfast, gingerbread houses for lunch, and pudding for dinner—and nobody gets diabetes.

If you make it to the “nice” list, meaning you didn’t pull your sister’s hair all year, you’d be poised to score some serious loot. However, if you found yourself in the unfortunate position of being on the “naughty” list, well, you’d probably get scratchy wool socks and a book about something that would make you a better person. You know, self-help stuff.

Some of my top requests included a Fisher Price record player (however, I did not ask for the Janis Ian soundtrack that accompanied it, my mom must have slipped that in for herself), a pink Huffy bike, and Wonder Woman boots. I never got the boots, but I loved putting my desires out there and I learned to have gratitude for whatever I received—whether it was on the list or not.

As an adult, sometimes it’s hard to believe in a magical connection to an unseen world that works on our behalf. Today, as you reads this blog, I dare you to wish and dream again.

If you’ve forgotten or stopped believing in your power to manifest then this is a fun reminder that the universe is ready to fulfill your wishes. However, it can’t know what to give you if you don’t tell it. Bake some cookies, pour some almond milk, and start writing your letter to the universe. Shoes are fine, but I’m more interested in soul cravings. Get out of your head (ego) and into your heart (soul). Kick-start the domino effect of the law of attraction. Nothing is too big, small, weird, or wild.

What emotions come up when you think about your wants? Happy, tired, sad, inspired? If your wants create exhaustion in your body perhaps they’re not right for you. If they ignite joy, go for them.

Now ask yourself, are you willing to meet the universe halfway?

Action is required. It’s not a free ride, even kids had to do something (be kind) to get what they wanted. There’s a funny joke about a guy who prays to win the lottery but never does. He complains and complains. Finally, one day, the Universe or God says, “dude, you gotta buy a ticket!”

This next bit is really important. How will you know when you get there—when you got what you wanted? I don’t know about you, but sometimes I’m so busy doing that I don’t notice (and appreciate) what I’ve already received. Stay alert and set a measurement for your success.

Above all leave room and trust. Sometimes the universe has a much bigger plan for you.

The fulfillment of your desires can come in the shape of a gift or the form of a much needed lesson. Either way, you are deeply loved and everything is possible.

From my family to yours, I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!

Your turn tootsie: Feeling brave? Share a wish. Put it out there. We’ll send them all to the spiritual North Pole and let’s see what happens! xo

Peace and bells,

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  1. Anne says:

    Well, it’s now nearly 2016 and I re-read your post lying awake with jet lag! I was stressing tying to pin point one thing I want amongst the many, and I realised that all I ever need is to learn to make decisions which are true to myself. Here’s to 2016 when I just become more of myself. XOX

  2. Aditi says:

    You’re an angle…with a pure heart..!
    Thanx for such a nice msg..
    ur words jus melt in the heart like a chocolate brownie..hehe
    God bless you..!!
    Take care
    love you

  3. Sarah says:

    Hey Kris! I just finished Crazy Sexy Diet and I’m on day two of my adventure cleanse! I wish to let go of my fears and welcome whatever the universe has in store for me! I wish to radiate kindness and love.

  4. Lindsay says:

    I love this! So what I needed to hear. Thanks for putting this out there, and letting me do the same.

    Lately I’ve been struggling with applying the Law of Attraction in my life — specifically, that I don’t know if I am in a position where I can take the opportunities the Universe/God presents and run with them. I’m a full-time mom to a 4-year-old and 1-year-old twins, so yeah, I’m a busy lady. I have very little time to pursue my own passions, and when I finally do get some alone time, I’m too exhausted to really use it for what I want. And then I finally realized, I can ask God/the Universe to help me find the time and the mental & physical energy to work on my goals, without it negatively affecting all my other responsibilities. And wouldn’t you know it, things are happening — MUCH quicker than I expected!

    My dream for the last decade has been to use my past struggles with bipolar disorder and depression to help people find their own joy in life, no matter the hand they’ve been dealt. I the past I’ve had opportunities to use my writing in various places to do just that, but it’s been a scattershot effort. Now, my wish for the year is for my fledgling website take off (no pun intended) so I can do that regularly, consistently, and really help people — thousands of people! — find the strength and turn their lives around.

    OK, Universe, it’s on you. Do your stuff!!!

  5. Rachel says:

    Kris, you are an amazing person! I love your recipes, especially since they are all ones I can eat! (I’m dairy and egg free due to allergies)

    For this year, I ask that I get help in finding customers for my cooking classes and online courses. I have a few right now, but I’m wanting a lot more!

    Hope you had a Merry Christmas!

  6. Donna says:

    Wonderfully said! I have never stopped believing in the magic of Santa I truly believe that is what keeps my heart young. Whenever I feel down Christmas music brings me back. Thank you for sharing this.

  7. Jodi says:

    I seem to sport the Gemini traits of being unfocused and having a lack of direction. Ironically, spending much time thinking about how achieve focus and direction.

  8. Julie says:

    As I read the comments & wishes here, it strikes me that you’ve provided a sort of collective, energy-gaining space to help draw in what we came here for – to live what’s in our hearts. Thanks for doing this, Kris 🙂

    I ask the universe to hear my commitments and help me manifest them in my life:
    – I will work as a teacher in a context where kids are respected, enthused, joyful, inspired, and eager to learn in a way that nourishes them to be creative, powerful, autonomous beings.
    – I will offer this way of learning to my daughter so that she may find immense joy, freedom and enthusiasm in her learning.
    – We will find the perfect place to live that will provide a balance of nature, beauty and loving, mindful, healthy community.
    – I will fully let go of the limiting perspectives that do not serve me and be crystal-clear aware of this dynamic.
    – I will access my heart’s vision and be healthy physically, emotionally and mentally.

    Ok, I began with some degree of trepidation and ended with inspiration! I am happy to send this out to the universe and to those of you who will read it!

    I hope that 2015 brings an exponential growth in both joy and gratitude for all 🙂

    Best,
    Julie

  9. Madison says:

    I want a fulfilling career that empowers and enlivens others. The freedom to work from home, from a coffeeshop, wherever I choose. A career that expresses my divine truth and inspires others to know their (our) own. To truly live my truth. That is what I want.

    Thank you, Kris. Your work has changed my life! I hope you can feel the immense gratitude that this community shares for you <3

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