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If You Don’t Ask, The Universe Can’t Deliver!

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Happy Holidays, Dearest!

Did you believe in Santa when you were a kid?

If this tradition wasn’t part of your cultural upbringing let me share what it was like. It was a time when anything was possible. Consumerism aside, the big guy in the red suit still reminds me of the cheerful, hopeful kid inside. I love Santa to this day. If you’re feeling like you could use a dose of magical thinking to lift your spirits and launch your desires, especially as you head into the new year, this blog might get your creative juices flowing again.

And in case you need a refresher, here’s the kind of Santa-joy I’m talking about…

Now, more about Mr. Claus.

A jolly chap from a whimsical land works with elves to make toys and gather presents for all the children in the world. Some elves are the craftsman, others do gift wrapping and card writing. Reindeer cruise around without predators and everyone lives in happy harmony. Mrs. Claus (an incredible pastry chef) serves cookies for breakfast, gingerbread houses for lunch, and pudding for dinner—and nobody gets diabetes.

If you make it to the “nice” list, meaning you didn’t pull your sister’s hair all year, you’d be poised to score some serious loot. However, if you found yourself in the unfortunate position of being on the “naughty” list, well, you’d probably get scratchy wool socks and a book about something that would make you a better person. You know, self-help stuff.

Some of my top requests included a Fisher Price record player (however, I did not ask for the Janis Ian soundtrack that accompanied it, my mom must have slipped that in for herself), a pink Huffy bike, and Wonder Woman boots. I never got the boots, but I loved putting my desires out there and I learned to have gratitude for whatever I received—whether it was on the list or not.

As an adult, sometimes it’s hard to believe in a magical connection to an unseen world that works on our behalf. Today, as you reads this blog, I dare you to wish and dream again.

If you’ve forgotten or stopped believing in your power to manifest then this is a fun reminder that the universe is ready to fulfill your wishes. However, it can’t know what to give you if you don’t tell it. Bake some cookies, pour some almond milk, and start writing your letter to the universe. Shoes are fine, but I’m more interested in soul cravings. Get out of your head (ego) and into your heart (soul). Kick-start the domino effect of the law of attraction. Nothing is too big, small, weird, or wild.

What emotions come up when you think about your wants? Happy, tired, sad, inspired? If your wants create exhaustion in your body perhaps they’re not right for you. If they ignite joy, go for them.

Now ask yourself, are you willing to meet the universe halfway?

Action is required. It’s not a free ride, even kids had to do something (be kind) to get what they wanted. There’s a funny joke about a guy who prays to win the lottery but never does. He complains and complains. Finally, one day, the Universe or God says, “dude, you gotta buy a ticket!”

This next bit is really important. How will you know when you get there—when you got what you wanted? I don’t know about you, but sometimes I’m so busy doing that I don’t notice (and appreciate) what I’ve already received. Stay alert and set a measurement for your success.

Above all leave room and trust. Sometimes the universe has a much bigger plan for you.

The fulfillment of your desires can come in the shape of a gift or the form of a much needed lesson. Either way, you are deeply loved and everything is possible.

From my family to yours, I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!

Your turn tootsie: Feeling brave? Share a wish. Put it out there. We’ll send them all to the spiritual North Pole and let’s see what happens! xo

Peace and bells,

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  1. Ana says:

    Than you so much, Kris
    I do love your blog.
    My wish is to have a baby.

  2. Ana says:

    Thank you Kris, very straight forward, helpful, beautiful and comforting!
    My wish is to be more accepting of myself and others, to be free of judgement and to be comfortable with my own worth. I AM who I am and who I am is perfectly ok and enough.
    Ana x

  3. Goga says:

    Thank you Kris! For this blog and for everything you are doing. Sending you love, lots of love&light. May all our communicated wishes get manifested 😉

  4. Leonie says:

    Dear Universe
    I want to move back to were I came from but unsure if it’s the right decision and economically possible for me to do so. My current life is stable but is this all there is? Should I be grateful with what I have or can I make my dreams a reality? It scares me especially since around me, I have seen so many people that were very dear to me, pass away before reaching their potential, Please Universe, show me the way to find my destiny or tell me this is it.

  5. Rebecca says:

    My wish is to live and love fully and freely! In health, wealth, and harmony. To enjoy my magical soon-to-be new home in Evergreen, Colorado in peaceful quietude. To share with loved ones. To conserve our beautiful, natural world. To give even more to my favorite for-purpose organizations. And to have even more time to create inspiring art to to help everyone appreciate and love nature and all life. And so it is! Thank you, Chris! Blessings to all, and to all love, light, and peace on Earth.

  6. Mia says:

    Kris, thanks for creating this forum and for reminding us to wish and believe.
    __________

    Alright Universe, I continue to speak it and write it and think it and wish it and will it…

    We are ready for our baby. Three miscarriages in a year and a half is heartbreaking, but it did not break us. I am learning. Learning from grief and the unknown. I am learning to be tougher than I ever thought possible. I am learning to not blame myself or lose faith in my amazing body. I believe.

    We are ready for our baby. The little perfect being that we make and “bake” and deliver into this world in 2015.

  7. Nina says:

    I have been wanting to have a child for many years – tried many ways. I am tired now, but still have my wish. So if it is the right thing for me and the whole world, I still wish for a child. Also a family, traditions, love and ease for me and everybody who I am somehow influencing.

  8. PRAN says:

    Is the universe ready to deliver our wishes ? I would love a romantic partner but still have not found him,. Help me , how do I manifest ?

    • PRAN says:

      Thank you Kris , I love your energy and positivity ..

      I hope you and your loved one have a great Xmas .. Yes, I am blessed with love too ..

      I welcome you help and advice on romance and finding the one !

  9. Beck says:

    My gift was stumbling across you and I can’t even remember how that happened! You always inspire me and my wish is that I inspire others in my family to find forgiveness and compassion for each other over what has been a painful 5 months for my family. I have chosen love as I feel that will trump all. Merry Christmas!

  10. Sarah says:

    Thank you for this reminder!

    I wish to receive a job offer from my dream job in January!

    Merry Christmas!

  11. Kim White says:

    I am embarking on a plan to retire to California next year with my husband..Our bucket list… There is lots to do, get the house ready for sale and continue to imagine what our life will be like living there. The timing feels right and if I live in the present and take each day and each challenge one step at a time, I find that I am more at peace with myself and less fearful of the unknown.

  12. Neli says:

    I wish to be inspired also be present, stay with what comes and try to see the beauty in it. I wish to move to the outpatient surgery center and away from my work at the Emergency room.
    I wish to finish my massage therapy school.
    I wish cancer will never comeback.
    I wish to support and understand my teen son.
    I wish my year ahead to be the best year of my life!
    Kris you are a lovely presence in my life! Thank you for choosing this path and uplifting the rest of us!
    Love

  13. Rose says:

    You couldn’t have posted this at a better time, Kris. My partner and I are currently planning our own business, an idea that’s come a long time in the making. I’m goal is that I’ll FINALLY be able to quit the job that drains me. Another dream that I’m hoping to develop in the next few years is moving to Scotland and going to the school of my dreams for my masters.

    However, that being said, I am grateful that I live in a beautiful city, with the man of my dreams by my side, my best friend always being there for me, and my lovely purrrfect kitty. Thank you for reminding me that magic does exist, even if I can’t see it happening right now.

  14. Stacey says:

    Thank you for reminding me that you’re never too old to believe in Santa. Thank you for bringing such good energy. When I first read your Crazy Sexy series, I was hooked. And going through cancer treatment myself, it inspired me and continues to give me hope.

    My wish is that I kick cancer to the curb for good!

  15. Vickie says:

    In 2014 I started learning about putting things out to the universe. I actually threw out that I felt I was going to lose my job where I was miserable. Well, low and behold I was laid off. What a blessing that has been!! I have since been in a constant state of gratitude and another job found me. This position will be SO much better for me.

  16. Susan says:

    First ,kris,your a blessing!

  17. M says:

    My wish is for healing, for love and community. And to be ready for/ open to the changes that are coming.

  18. Sarah says:

    Kris,
    What you said in this blog post really resonated with me today. As a child I loved art and drawing. Even up into my late twenties I read manga and watched anime from Japan. Well, a few days ago I made a vision board and I put a bunch of pictures on anime characters on it attached to my dreams for 2015. I am 30 years old and I have been telling myself that I am too old to learn to draw and make my own artwork. I have been really unhappy in my life too. Next to spirituality on this vision board I made was a anime girl walking beside a Shinto temple. I had a anime girl with headphones on her head and put, “I relax each day. I listen to music, read, journal.” Another goal I attached was going back to my childhood and pulling up my interest in art. I put down that I would go back to college for graphic design. I guess what I am trying to say is our culture tends to frown upon childish dreams and reflecting back on your childhood. I guess that was why I attached images from anime. I was really happy when I read a graphic novel in my youth, which many in our culture frown upon. They teach classes on how to draw Japanese comics in professional art schools now. I just liked this article. When we are kids we are closest to what we really want to do. Sometimes being this responsible adult does NOT makes us happy. And we are NEVER too old to learn to do something we love. 🙂

  19. Nathalie says:

    My wish is not a wish but a special thanks to you Kriss for being who you are 🙂
    I read you and i follow you from Belgium and you give me a beautiful feeling of peace….maybe my wish is to meet others beautiful persons like you.:-)
    Sorry for the errors…english is not my language…

  20. Shelly says:

    Merry Christmas Kris!

    Thank you for this reminder of the inner joy we have with us all the time! I guess my wish is to be brave enough to try and maybe fail at things I’ve always wanted to do and to trust that I’m ok if I don’t get it perfect…this is something I tell my children, but need to live myself. I also wish to make more time for myself so that I can do all the things that make me joyful.

    ~ Shelly

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