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If You Don’t Ask, The Universe Can’t Deliver!

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Happy Holidays, Dearest!

Did you believe in Santa when you were a kid?

If this tradition wasn’t part of your cultural upbringing let me share what it was like. It was a time when anything was possible. Consumerism aside, the big guy in the red suit still reminds me of the cheerful, hopeful kid inside. I love Santa to this day. If you’re feeling like you could use a dose of magical thinking to lift your spirits and launch your desires, especially as you head into the new year, this blog might get your creative juices flowing again.

And in case you need a refresher, here’s the kind of Santa-joy I’m talking about…

Now, more about Mr. Claus.

A jolly chap from a whimsical land works with elves to make toys and gather presents for all the children in the world. Some elves are the craftsman, others do gift wrapping and card writing. Reindeer cruise around without predators and everyone lives in happy harmony. Mrs. Claus (an incredible pastry chef) serves cookies for breakfast, gingerbread houses for lunch, and pudding for dinner—and nobody gets diabetes.

If you make it to the “nice” list, meaning you didn’t pull your sister’s hair all year, you’d be poised to score some serious loot. However, if you found yourself in the unfortunate position of being on the “naughty” list, well, you’d probably get scratchy wool socks and a book about something that would make you a better person. You know, self-help stuff.

Some of my top requests included a Fisher Price record player (however, I did not ask for the Janis Ian soundtrack that accompanied it, my mom must have slipped that in for herself), a pink Huffy bike, and Wonder Woman boots. I never got the boots, but I loved putting my desires out there and I learned to have gratitude for whatever I received—whether it was on the list or not.

As an adult, sometimes it’s hard to believe in a magical connection to an unseen world that works on our behalf. Today, as you reads this blog, I dare you to wish and dream again.

If you’ve forgotten or stopped believing in your power to manifest then this is a fun reminder that the universe is ready to fulfill your wishes. However, it can’t know what to give you if you don’t tell it. Bake some cookies, pour some almond milk, and start writing your letter to the universe. Shoes are fine, but I’m more interested in soul cravings. Get out of your head (ego) and into your heart (soul). Kick-start the domino effect of the law of attraction. Nothing is too big, small, weird, or wild.

What emotions come up when you think about your wants? Happy, tired, sad, inspired? If your wants create exhaustion in your body perhaps they’re not right for you. If they ignite joy, go for them.

Now ask yourself, are you willing to meet the universe halfway?

Action is required. It’s not a free ride, even kids had to do something (be kind) to get what they wanted. There’s a funny joke about a guy who prays to win the lottery but never does. He complains and complains. Finally, one day, the Universe or God says, “dude, you gotta buy a ticket!”

This next bit is really important. How will you know when you get there—when you got what you wanted? I don’t know about you, but sometimes I’m so busy doing that I don’t notice (and appreciate) what I’ve already received. Stay alert and set a measurement for your success.

Above all leave room and trust. Sometimes the universe has a much bigger plan for you.

The fulfillment of your desires can come in the shape of a gift or the form of a much needed lesson. Either way, you are deeply loved and everything is possible.

From my family to yours, I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!

Your turn tootsie: Feeling brave? Share a wish. Put it out there. We’ll send them all to the spiritual North Pole and let’s see what happens! xo

Peace and bells,

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  1. Cynthia says:

    I just love this post! What a fabulous way to discuss believing. My two beautiful adopted boys (both christmas miracles) are allowing me to experience Santa all over again but your post reminded me that Santa isn’t just for 3 and 1 year olds. Thank you so much for sharing this! Merry Christmas:)

  2. Cathrin says:

    Thank you for sharing, Kris!

    My wish is to finally get some great dancing jobs! I have been at such a long journey with my dream to become a professional dancer and to make a living out of it. Spreading my love through my dance, my biggest passion.
    And I think I am ready now to release all the fears which has been keeping me blocked and not being open to recieve all the great opportunities out there! Thank you and merry Christmas from Denmark (almost Northpole 😉

  3. MIke K. says:

    Dear Universe:
    Please give my wife the strength and wisdom to heal from her emotional pain and find her way back to me. Please grant me the inner peace, strength and patience to support her in her journey.
    Thank you.

    And thank you, Kris, for your beautiful work.

  4. Lori says:

    I am so happy and grateful that I serve 3 groups of 10 in group coaching calls each quarter of 2015. My clients are manifesting more and more good in the world. We invest in organizations and people that are changing the world because we are people of power and intention.
    We help women, artists and young adults live their very best life.

  5. Mirella says:

    I totally believe in Santa Claus!
    I wish to get a cat!

    Happy Holidays, lovely Kris and friends <3
    here's a little video I created http://youtu.be/nXeY_-8b6r8

    Mirella

  6. Rion says:

    Thank you

  7. Kelly says:

    I wish for clarity around my wants – I have a lot of seemingly disparate things I’m interested, so I’m wishing for guidance on how these can all come together in 2015. And, I wish for clear messages about the path I’m meant to take. AND (finally), I wish to continue to have angels by my side. I met several in 2014 and I can only wish to be as lucky in 2015.

    Happy holidays Kris!! Much love to you. xx

  8. Court says:

    Kris,
    Thanks for asking!
    I am wishing for love, creativity, and abundance.

    Thank you so much,
    Court

  9. Kimberly says:

    Thanks, Kris!!!

    Dear Universe,

    My goal and desire is to transition from one career I’m passionate about (independent graphic design) to my next career (independent wellness), while being financially able to support myself and thrive.

    I desire to NOT take a full-time job without giving my dreams a chance, out of fear of failing.

    xoxo,
    Kimberly

  10. Galit says:

    Dear amazing Kris, Happy Holidays to you and your family (fur babies and all).
    I wish great mental and physical health upon myself and my family and I wish upon myself great supporting new friends in the new place we are moving to in 6 weeks!

    I WILL continue this positive momentum I am on,

    I AM LIGHT I AM!

  11. Jenn says:

    My wish for 2015 is to be an even better version of myself. I downloaded your book, Kris. Read it cover to cover (well IPad page 1 to the last) and have been so inspired by your message. Your positivity and overall awesomeness has been just the “kick” I needed to start looking internal and finding my vibrant me again. 2015 will be the year of Jenn and her health and happiness!

    I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and an outstanding New Year!
    Jenn 🙂

  12. Bridgette says:

    My wish is to learn to enjoy Change. I actually love change and the growth it brings. But when EVERYTHING and EVERYONE around me is changing all at once, it is a little hard to handle. I want to enjoy however little or a lot that is happening around me.

  13. Christine says:

    HI Kris;

    A fantastic article, as usual!

    I’m so grateful for 2014, that I wish for 2015 to be much of the same and more! I’d like to finish and publish my book, and have it well received. I’d like to continue to be abundant enough to share and to be secure financially. Lastly, I’d like my health to continue to improve and be at my best both emotionally and physically. It’s going to take some energy to accomplish these things, and my body will be in top form to help me out with that!

    Have a fantastic Holiday, and to you and all your readers, I wish you inspiration and an abundance of Love all through 2015.

    Christine.

  14. Dawn says:

    Great article! I like many of the responders want to get moving towards my businesses thriving in 2015 and living in love and gratitude.

  15. Julie says:

    To continue teaching yoga and meditation, but to reach more and more people with it. Continue making more Yoga Nidra CDs and recordings, finish writing my book about savasana, and create more ways for people to pamper themselves with the gift of yoga and meditation. I know that I have the world in the palm of my hand (we all do!); for me it is a matter of staying focused and enjoying the journey instead of seeking the outcome. <3 Thank you Kris for all that you do!

  16. Holly says:

    Awesome! Needed that! Thanks 🙂 and Merry X-mas! God bless!!

  17. Julia says:

    I wish to be a source of inspiration to others, much like you! I wish to write and create and spread the holistic knowledge I have gained over my 33 years as a vegetarian and help others to heal themselves naturally. 2015 is my year to do what I know in my heart I am meant to do 🙂

  18. Carmen says:

    I have just come to the realization (on a deeper, heart-knowing level) that my thoughts are the only thing keeping me from feeling free, self-love and worthiness. I have everything physically in place to live the life I want. Now is the time to feel it and believe it on an emotional and spiritual side.

    My wish is to find the courage and love to change those thoughts and see that I’m already living my dream. And to continue to do so with an open heart and gratitude.

  19. Christine Catura says:

    What a wonderful reminder….I wish to have unwavering faith in my intuition and know the new job closer to home is about to manifest. Release the fear and embrace the faith as well as BEing present.

  20. Kate says:

    I wish to gracefully, continually grow and stretch into who I am and to touch our world in all the ways that I can. Thank you for your bright and beautiful messages, Kris. You are such an inspiration to me. Merry Christmas!! 🙂

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