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How to Wind Down Mindfully and Relax Before Bed

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Hey There Angel,

Today I want to jam on how to wind down your day with ease.

If you’re like me, it’s easy to get into the habit of cramming in as much as possible to your already-crazy schedule. When I take off my work hat and step back into my role as wife to my guy and mom to my dogs (and caretaker of my garden!), I find a whole other (gigantic) to-do list waiting for me. Sometimes I push so hard that I’m dead to the world the second I hit the pillow. On those nights, I don’t sleep so well and you better believe I guzzle coffee the next day, then follow it up with sugary stuff to fight my fatigue.

But on nights when I wind down mindfully, I have the most restful sleeps, and productive days follow.

So what does that look like—a calming, mindful evening? Let’s find out!

Here are my 4 favorite nighttime wind down practices:

1. Start earlier

Yes, there’s laundry to do, stuff to organize and piles that won’t put themselves away. But the more amped up we get before we go to bed, the harder it is to settle in and drift off. If I don’t get eight hours of sleep on a consistent basis, my everything suffers—especially my health.

So here’s the tip: Ween yourself off the late night putter and those racking and stacking Netflix marathons! Your body, brains and beauty will be so grateful to you.

2. Take a hot shower or bath

Nothing soothes your nervous system like warm water. It washes the day and stress away. Apparently, the water raises our body temperature by one to two degrees, and so the immediate cool down period we experience clicks us into relaxation mode. Aaahhh.

Here’s a great bathtub soaking recipe: Add 2 cups epsom salt, 1/2 cup raw apple cider vinegar, 1/4 cup baking soda and a few dashes of lavender to warm water.

Try it next time you lounge in the tub. Light a candle. Let it all go. And while a hot shower or bath will definitely soothe your bones, you don’t want to sleep in a hot room. Keep it cool, baby. Ideally, you’ll want your bedroom temp to be between 67 and 70 degrees.

3. Be careful with the stimulants

Coffee past noon and too much alcohol at night mess with our natural sleep rhythms, as does nicotine, which raises your heart rate and brain activity. While I love a good glass of wine every once in awhile, more than one makes me wicked drowsy and then pops me awake a few hours later. Yuck. Dread. And once I’m up, I often have a hard time snoozing again.

Another stimulant to keep in check is that super-engaging iPad screen! Typically, your body uses the hormone melatonin to help make you sleepy, but here’s the thing: Melatonin won’t release properly if you’re exposed to too much light. So for the sake of your health, leave the electronics out of your room.

Oh, and one more tip: If you have trouble balancing your blood sugar, eat a teaspoon or two of almond butter before bed or if you wake up with insomnia. This really helps!

4. Prep the night before

Lay your clothes out. Pack your bags. Do whatever you have to do to ensure you’re not rushing around in the morning. I can’t believe I’m going to tell you this, but one morning last year I was late for the airport, and I literally walked out the door without my pants. Full disclosure: I had underwear and shorts on, but totally forgot my trousers. You know how it goes: you’re curling your hair, trying to put on makeup without blinding yourself, cramming stuff into your suitcase and bam! No pants. LOL.

Another way to prep is to get your juice and smoothie stuff ready to go so it’s waiting for you in the AM. Figure out what you’re going to make, wash it, prep it, put it in Debbie Meyer green bags (they extend the life of your produce) and then whip up your goodness first thing. Trust me, this one tip saves oodles of time. For yummy recipes, you can order my book Crazy Sexy Juice. I promise to blow your taste buds away. 😉

So there you have it, my love—a few ideas for how you can wind down mindfully.

Your turn: Either share how you like to wind down or share one of your recent wins! I’d love to hear.

Peace and zzz’s,

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  1. gun mayhem says:

    I love this time of the year, Fall and having fire pits. It’s really relaxing and helps me sleep great!

  2. My iPod is my night time savior. I’ve gotten into the habit of listening to meditation music after lights off and by about the third or fourth song, I’m nodding off. I just have to remember to bring my iPod whenever I travel!

  3. Debbie Searcy says:

    Kris, what you do is so important. Some may say all the kind words you us like sunshine angel etc is corny, but to me it means the world my husband use to say all of those things to me and he died 4 years ago since than I have not heard any of those kind words. Every time I read your emails I hear his voice you help being him back for me. Thank you so much. How we speak and the words we use I feel is one of the most important things we do in life. You are a wonderful amazing person thank you for all you do to lift others. Love and blessings to you always Kris

  4. Sally says:

    One more thing – I didn’t see the inspirational wallpaper?

  5. Sally says:

    3 wins – stuck to Crazy, Sexy, Diet for 21 days and changed my way of eating – dropped gluten completely, minimal cheese, no milk, cut way back on that glass of wine, feel fabulous –
    Juice every day and enjoying the conncotions
    Started my daily yoga again!

  6. Sue Lucia says:

    Love the way you write. Down to earth, genuine, and funny besides! And a whole lot of very valuable information about food in general and wonderful tips. Thanks so much.

  7. Carol says:

    Your back with so much joy. A few years past I bought your book. Dove in head first. So maybe it’s me that’s back! Thank you kris ,

  8. Susi says:

    My recent win was giving a great talk in front of 40 people last week and they all were excited. I totally enjoyed it, was fun and charming and I’m really proud of myself. Yes. 🙂

  9. At the beginning of the year, the beau proposed that we stare into each other’s eyes (aka eye gazing) for 4 minutes each day. Since he goes to bed and gets up earlier than I, we usually do this before he goes to sleep. It helps us feel more connected and clicks me out of my “go go go must finish this thing before bed!” mode. Most of the time I find myself yawning and feeling my sleepiness so I decide to shut things down and get ready for bed. It’s been great for our relationship and sleep!

  10. Tara says:

    Thank you for sharing what is healing. This is exactly what I need in the time of sickness. I have so many friends and family who are there for me. But your above about good sleep and how I can take care of myself is also very helpful! Thank you Kris. Love from the Netherlands

  11. Always loving your posts here in the UK Kris!
    This is amazing advice and I need to listen to my own advice to others too and switch off the laptop and snuggle into bed earlier.
    I use Neal’s Yard products as I’m also a consultant for them as well as my own business, and I often use their Night time Remedies to Roll aromatherapy oil before bed – it’s great to breathe in as I give thanks and prayers for my day.
    Thanks for sharing, I love your site hence why you have a link from my own site 🙂

    Have a blessed weekend x

  12. morgane says:

    Thanks for the great advices. I just have a question.
    About the prep of the smoothies and jucies : Don’t the fruits and legumes loose their nutrients and vitamins if they’re cut too long before ?

  13. Maureen Moore says:

    Win- finishing my first week at IIN!!!! Woot woot!

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